Is it normal for your ex girlfriend to contact you after 2 years?

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okay im going to make this verryyy long story short . Im 20 , met a girl back in high school and we dated for about 3 years on and off . We had a lot of problems but we had a cool connection it was weird . she also was stuck on her ex which was our main problem but me being an idiot i stuck around . anyway Im going to skip ahead . things went bad i said some things i didn't mean and we stopped talking . i apologizes a few times after . She never responded to me or picked up my calls . so eventually i just moved on . a few days ago he messaged me on Facebook (were not friends on Facebook btw) and apologized for everything she's done in the relationship and said she doesn't want to hold a grudge against me and she hopes i don't feel any negative way about her either . i don't know how to respond to the message . Im not sure if i should respond at all . she did me wrong plenty of times i was sort of that back-up in love good guy that never did anything wrong . Im too smart to go through that all over again but strangely istill have slight feelings for her . like deep down i still have love for her but i don't want her . what should i do .

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Based on 23 votes (10 yes)
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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    Are you not seeing the pattern here?? YOUR THE EX!! Well now you are. She kept wanting to go back to her ex and that's you now buddy. Kindof like, you don't know what you have till it's gone. It's understandable you still want to be with her, especially if your single, but the things that always get people back together with their ex is that forget how it felt and what truly broke them up. You seem to remember those things, so I would use them as a keen reminder to myself and not get into that again. Then again though, it wouldn't be such a bad idea to try again because it will inevitably fail (Dating your ex has that effect) and you'll get past being hung up on her. Soo uhhh, win win situation I guess :P

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  • thinkingaboutit
    12 years ago

    Tell her you understand. If you are ready to forgive her, forgive her. If you aren't, tell her so. Tell her the truth is what I'm saying.

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    Well, it's just an apology not a get back together proposal. I'd ignore it. She obviously had to get that off her chest to help her sleep at night I guess. Let it go.

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