Is it normal for your boyfriend to think kissing is gross?

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So I was with my boyfriend i tried leaning in to kiss him he pulls away I asked do you want to kiss? He replies no I'm asking why not he said because it's weird and gross in public I asked not even a peck? He responds back no because it's weird in a tone a child would say it's been two months already and he's 17. So is this normal for a guy to think that?

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Based on 67 votes (15 yes)
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  • starie
    11 years ago

    Either he's:
    Really immature;
    Really conservative;
    Gay?

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      Or, and just hear me out here, maybe, just maybe, he finds kissing to be unapealing.
      How can someone be "immature" for not liking a certain action? Such a statement can only come from immaturity.

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      • starie
        11 years ago

        Or that... (i was just naming options)

        You know those kids who say: eww, omg, they're kissing!! gross! ? That would be considered immature thinking. This is what i meant.

        Yeah, i'm immature for stating a valid option...

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      • macaroniheyo
        11 years ago

        Yeah, but there has to be some reason for him to think that. I mean, it's kissing for pete's sake!

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        • [Old Memory]
          11 years ago

          I don't think kissing is that appealing, either.

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          • lemonsilly
            11 years ago

            Who says you are normal?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    does he kiss you in non public places?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      No not even when we are

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      • Terence_the_viking
        10 years ago

        Thats harsh.

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        So why are you with him?

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  • redoctober
    11 years ago

    Maybe he just doesnt want to in public?

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  • Justsomejerk
    11 years ago

    You might need to brush your teeth.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I do I even chew a spearmint gum

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    • bodazzy
      11 years ago

      lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    He's prudish.

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  • bodazzy
    11 years ago

    maybe hes just a dick

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    • Short&2thepoint
      10 years ago

      Or doesn't have one.

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    He might not find you sexually attractive for whatever reason

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  • EthelBlumpkin
    10 years ago

    It's probably because your breath smells like a shit covered asshole.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    I have one ex I didn't like to kiss but she had bad breath issues. She brushed her teeth even more than I do though.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    He sounds really repressed. Ask yourself if you can live with this quirk of his and if you can't just move on.

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  • lemonsilly
    11 years ago

    Some think kissing in public is inappropriate and bad manners. He might like kissing you. Does he kiss you in private?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      No not even when we are alone

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  • DADNSCAL
    11 years ago

    There's actually a word for it: philematophobia, and can be cured by desensitization. That is, gradual exposure until it's extinguished. Start be kissing him on the neck or shoulder, and gradually work your way up.

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  • mixwell
    11 years ago

    I like kissing myself but as I'm older now I can't really remember really making out in public with a chick. I think it's kinda cheesy myself but I would do it if she initiated it but I rarely initiate it in public.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    11 years ago

    Normal. Some people just aren't into kissing in public.

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