Is it normal for your boyfriend to cheat on socail networking sites?

i have seen my boyfriends inboxes on facebook a couple of times and he seems to be constantly talking to girls asking them were they are from and they telling them they look fit with kisses on the end and its always a high quantity; i just wanted to know if it is cheating or not as every time i confront him he says its not in real life it upsets me but everytime he says he will delete it if we have an small arguement he continues with it regardless how i feel

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  • AngAnders112

    Depends on where you draw the line.
    My friends allow each other to flirt and shit with other people online. They just both agreed that nothing physical can happen. If he's hiding this from you, then that's a different story, I suppose.

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  • "It's not real life" says the boyfriend. Yet he's still doing it. What a fucking retard. I don't know why you put up with that shit, he clearly doesn't care about you nor love you if he still continues to do this.

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  • Yeah, he's cheating on you. That's what you get for dating an asshole.

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  • Wow are u guys fuckin serious? He isnt cheating on you.. all of u are fucking crybabies. When someone cheats on u it has to be when he has sex with someone else. When he talks on the sites he never sees them naked or even touches them..what the fuk is wrong with this new generation.

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    • klynn

      What is wrong with this generation?! What generation would that be?? You need Jesus.

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  • thanks guys just wanted advice

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  • moomus

    Whether you regard it as cheating or not (personally I do) either way he hasn't got an ounce of respect for you. Do you really want to be with someone like that?I'd park his Arse to the kerb!

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  • dappled

    Cheating is cheating, even if it's conducted in an email or text message. If you've committed yourself enough to someone to have a title (i.e. boyfriend), then you're off the market and you shouldn't show interest in pursuing others.

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  • lc1988

    Yes it's cheating...if he wants to act single, make it happen.

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  • dom180

    I would say to ask him about it, but you clearly have, quite a few times, so I would say to him to stop or that you'll leave him.

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  • WillieFiasco

    If it bothers you then it is what it is, I think you knew the answer to this before you asked it. But it would be considered cheating because he is starting to stray away.

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  • If it makes you uncomfortable, him as your man should respect and love you enough to stop, regardless of whether or not it's cheating. But it is, by the way.

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  • Ldizzy1234

    You deserve so much better. Despite that it's over social networking sites, that boyfriend of yours is giving off the impression that he's single when he's not. It's wrong.

    It's hurtful to you, and those girls are getting the wrong idea. You need to confront him again. If he doesn't stop this time, let there be not another time. Lose him!

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  • Ennue

    If he can't rely on you to give him the attention that he needs, then he isn't worth it. He's definitely cheating, not in the traditional sense it would seem, but it is possible that he could be sneaking off to meet these women. Don't get me wrong though, even if he isn't sneaking off, relying on cyber girlfriends for intimate conversation is still cheating. Sorry.

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  • Kaylagreen

    Of course he's cheating.

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