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I am 22 and my boyfriend is 25, we've been dating three years. Is it normal for him to always want other women and expect me to be okay with that???
He is cheating on you and pounding multiple women in the face and bum then coming home and pounding your mouth and making you taste their bum.
I think a lot of this depends on how he treats you. Does he tell you he wants you or thinks your beautiful? My boyfriend does the same thing but he tells me daily he loves and wants me. He may not mean anything by it. He may be clueless that you take it negatively. It's hilarious the logic behind what boys do sometimes. Mine told me he tells me because he trusts I know he wouldn't act on anything. Sometimes I also think he does it because he knows we girls see them looking, and he's just letting me know what trivial thing caught his eye.
Not cool, either he wants you or he doesn't! Seems to me he wants his cake and to eat it too! So, he's cool with you seeing other dudes? Yeah didn't think so! Get out of that situation!!
I have been with my wife for 8 years (married for 3), and she knows I look at other women. I love boobs. I'm a guy. Still, in all honesty, she also knows that I love her only and have never cheated on her. The fact that we have open lines of communication & are "experimental" keeps our relationship honest and fresh. And I'm 26 (we're highschool sweethearts) so yes, at my age I can say that most guys, good or bad, "want" other women for one reason or another.
It's really a yes and no because he's a young guy and so it appears he does not care much about your feelings. Most guys find other women attractive just like you find other men attractive. So it's fine to want other people because your so young and that is human nature, to want to "spread your seed". Unfortunately, a guy that voices it to you usually does not have yourbest interest at heart. If he's telling you that he likes other girls then he is probably, from my experience, trying to make you become something your not by dropping hints " you should wear your hair that way". If he's voicing that he likes other women you need to get to the root of the problem and ask the deeper questions. Always talk and if your not talking you don't have a relationship.
...Long story short, if you're uncomfortable with the high chance of him cheating, I think you two should break up.
No, this is not normal. In fact, it is quite abusive and upsetting. Why are you with him? He seems to be a jerk and jerk's like to lower your self-esteem in this manner. You need to find out what you want in this person.
Yes it is normal and yes you should be ok with it just as it is OK for him know that you will always be with other men! This is innate. I could get into all the moral and immoral reasons the result of monotheism. But wars and sexual hangups are all caused by today's monotheistic religions. If you actually care to know, you could study about all the religions, but, it's pretty well known that when polytheism was not only the norm, but practiced globally, back over 3,000 years ago, back when all civilizations became called civilizations, they were actually civil. It's in our blood to share, monotheism made us (humanity) selfish. I read a few days ago about a man that asked the same question about his wife, someone posted it takes "true love" to be able to give without expectations.