Is it normal for your best friend to hate when you date?

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My best friend since we were little girls absolutely hates when I date... I've been with the same guy for about a solid year now, plus we've been off & on talking for about 4 years prior to that! It's safe to say, I REALLY love this guy. He's everything I could want in a "other half". But my best friend hates when I talk about him, texts him, or spends any time with him. She completely acts like a different person.. Almost b*tchy to be quite honest. I absolutely love my best friend, but I love the guy I'm with. Is it normal for a best friend to despise the fact that you're in a good, healthy, happy, steady relationship??

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Based on 43 votes (23 yes)
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  • bleach_baby
    12 years ago

    She's not a lesbian lol. She's jealous because you prob spend less time with her when you're dating, and cuz she doesn't have someone special, and she's probably sick of hearing about how in love you and your boyfriend are. Try and compromise. Talk about him a bit less.

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  • Scarecr0w
    12 years ago

    She wants you inside of her.

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  • JuliusE
    12 years ago

    She's a lesbo

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  • Alysin
    11 years ago

    She probably gets jealous that she doesn't get all of you're attention. I know people like that who want to be someones only friend and get upset when they hang out/text/talk to someone else.
    It does not mean she is a lesbian and wants you..
    Unless she does then that's a different story :P
    But you should defiantly talk to her about it if you haven't already and try to understand why she gets so upset about you dating.

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  • Solophonic
    12 years ago

    In all seriousness, your friend might be a lesbian.

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    She's just angry and or jealous that you're spending your time with you bf. I actually was in her situation in high school and was quite upset but now I realize how unreasonable I was. Maybe try to hang out with her a little more or hook her up with one of your bf's friends!

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89
    12 years ago

    Girls talk about boys, it's what we do! You should have the freedom to talk to your best friend about what you like and not have to tread carefully around her, the only way I could understand I suppose is if he done something to you in the past to hurt you and he resents him for it?
    It sounds like she's jealous, is she with anyone? Before you was with your boyfriend did you spend a lot of time with her?
    My best friend openly admits she hates me being with anyone because she's not getting all my attention so maybe it's not the relationship she hates, maybe it's the fact you don't spend as much time with her.
    There's not much you can do about it, maybe just outright ask her but it's your life at the end of the day, what is she gonna be like when you're married?!

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    "a good, healthy, happy, steady relationship"?

    Geez I feel sorry for your GF putting up with this.
    Here's an idea, next time you're with your long lasting GF, please TRY to make an effort in not talking about your wonderous guy. I'd even go as far as telling your BF not to text you when you're out with your GF.

    Your GF has rights too :)
    Be a FRIEND to her with just YOU for a change.

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