Is it normal for young girls and older guys to fall in love?

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i'm a 20 year old girl.i had a boy friend for like 6 months.he was 22.in the mean time i met this guy who is 42 years and extremely handsome,sexy and hot.he flirts around and use to touch my hand and i got so attracted to him.he likes me so much and so do i.i broke up with my boy friend because i didn't have feelings for him.this older guy and i are so close now.but we haven't decided what our relationship is.i like this guy a lot,but he has had lot of girl friends before and i had only 1 boy friend.i didn't mind it before but now i do mind it a bit.i'm not sure whether he truly loves me as he says.he cares for me so much.but i have a doubt of what i'm doing because my ex-boyfriend truly loves me and i'm 100% sure about it.i was his 1st love and he says i will be his final love as well.what should i do?should i go for the older guy to whom i got feelings or to my ex-boyfriend who loves me madly.both are doctors by the way.please help me out here.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    The older one is just flattering you and his own ego. He will dump you after he notches his bed post. He can have nothing truly in common with you - music, film, friends, you're being foolish.

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    Wow a 22yo doctor, they get younger and younger every year. And SO lucky they are doctors, because these guys use their MIND mostly, its ironic that they have chosen such a emotionally confused girl.

    Love, lust, trust, attraction are all feelings.
    If you 'feel' you would rather continue with the 42yo because he's handsome etc, then you have already made your mind up.

    Anyway, the 22yo (doctor) is obviously going to wait for you!

    By the way, when you learn that 22 years your senior is not on the same wave length as you, uou'll probably grow stronger feelings for boys around your age. I'd say try to find someone who is more interested in your feelings and not just what suits them, whilst they save their pennies. Smart guys.

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  • lovelychanel2
    12 years ago

    i think the older guy just sees you as a trophy gf so if you're fine with just being this, then go with him since it seems you like him more. how is the 22 year old a doctor already? where i live it takes upward of 6-8 years to become a professional in this field.

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