Is it normal for women to still like/love a guy that hits/beats then?

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Oky, imma start of by saying im a guy, but i have a question that i just dont fuking get why? Why do they females still care for some ass the hits them, WTF! Just hearing about a guy that hits a girl pisses me off so bad i want to go on an ass-kicking-rampage on some d-bags. in one conversation i hear a women say the first time he hit her for real, she thought it was cause he really loved her! fuking really?!? and another girl i know was force to have sex at 12 and was beat by a guy (14) and she still likes him cause he has "blue eyes" WTF!!!! Agh just talking about it pisses mean off so much. Why are all these people i care about like this!!!!

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  • georgienne
    12 years ago

    It's frustrating, but not enough to get that worked up about it.
    Some girls are clueless, some are guilted or forced into thinking that way, some know it's wrong and do it anyway. There's little you can do about the girls; we should be educating the guys.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I miss you, you idiot.

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  • rhastings88
    11 years ago

    Normal? Unfortunately, yes, it's pretty common in some areas. Good? Obviously not. Women tend to think they can't do any better and it may not seem like it to an outsider but there's a lot of mental manipulation that takes effect.

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    They are either stupid or Masochists.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Stockholm Syndrome. Look it up.

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  • sugarbunny772
    12 years ago

    You need to chillax,people that do this have no respect for themselves to be honest,it's pathetic.I'd never let a guy hit me in the first place,it's totally unacceptable.

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  • theabider
    12 years ago

    Actually, it is because women are by nature sexually submissive. I am one, I would know.

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  • midnatwilight
    11 years ago

    At the beginning, the abuser does and says all the right things. He seems like a real man that everyone would want to be with. He is the nice gentleman and lover that you've always wanted. They do all the things to make the woman fall in love with them. Then one time he gets pissed off and hits her. Because of the way the relationship started, and that she already loves him, she's confused. She thinks he just made a mistake, and tries to ride it out. So he plays the good guy again, and then he makes another "mistake." Abuse is a cycle. They manipulate, control, and go back and forth between who they really are and the great guy. Also, the abuser always makes sure to tell the victim that it is their fault.

    I know how frustrating it is to watch someone you know be a victim of abuse. Most times, I think they know just how fucked up their situation is, but they're in denial. They want their honeymoon back, or they're just too scared to leave.

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    • shuggy-chan
      11 years ago

      lol i know all that, i was just pissed at a friend then, hahah that was like a year ago, i dont talk to her anymore, so problem solved i suppose

      and what anime is that pic of your?

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      • midnatwilight
        11 years ago

        Yeah I just wanted everyone to be aware. :)
        And, I actually don't know, I just like it lol

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        • shuggy-chan
          11 years ago

          it a cool pic, so you like anime?

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          • midnatwilight
            11 years ago

            Love it! do you?

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  • MegaGrenny
    11 years ago

    my dad........ that sounds like him

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  • RaNdOmPoPcOrN
    11 years ago

    That was my parents! I was about 11

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  • white841201
    11 years ago

    Just ask them "are you M?"

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  • Yumazing
    12 years ago

    You better come back. You're my bathtub, Shugs! Come back :(

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  • ZinZin
    12 years ago

    Well most men who hit their ladies are rich blokes ..as I mostly hear... and those sluts aint gonna leave no rich place just because their blokes have been treatin them wrong anyway some woman dont leave them coz they have what is called 'True love' for them..how sad:(

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    • shuggy-chan
      12 years ago

      well what ive come across was more they feel like its cause he loves them so much he gets to mad, and hits them, which is crazy to me

      and this was on of my rant stories, u couldnt have picked a better one to post on hahaha

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    i like the passion in your story and i don't have an answer. cause they are dumb?

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