Is it normal for vaginal sex to hurt?

I just dont understand it, it doesn matter the size of the penis or dildo, or ow many times I try it, its always soo painfull, it makes me feel broken, in some fucked up way. Does anyone else have this, its like a knife wrentching pain and no pleasure what so ever.

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Comments ( 7 )
  • peterr

    See your doctor immediately, you don't want to waste such a nice aspect of life.

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  • dappled

    Don't take this as a diagnosis, but I'm wondering if it's vaginismus. It's worth doing some reading around the subject to see if it fits your symptoms. If not, then I think it's better the girls answer this one.

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  • sexysonofsam

    You should be treated with care, somebody should take their time with you and introduce you to a little bit of dick at a time. For the first five times there should only be minimal intrusion, eventually you will get used to the feeling and ease up until you are ready for the full dick!

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  • sillygirl77

    I guess I should be more specific about what helped... the dr actually sent me to a physical therapist... yes a physical therapist... that specialized in such pain.. we did bio feedback and exercises.. it really helped. You may have a different problem. See your doctor as soon as you can!

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  • sillygirl77

    See your doctor! I had this issue for a while. My doctor was able to get me treatment that helped!

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  • cathy22

    all good advice.

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  • Hmm, I think I agree with dappled, since it's natural for it to be painful when he pushes it in but after a few or more thrusts, you should start to feel good or amazing.

    I would consult your doctor about this because it might be something that only a professional can help with.

    As general tips, make sure to have foreplay and that you are wet enough and relaxed. Sorry for being so blunt and gross too!

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