Is it normal for us to do this?

My wife and I enjoy pleasing each other. We both also enjoy being diapered and having a pacifier tied into our mouths. When I want to get head or she wants to be licked then we tie whoevers giving the pleasure, their hands tied behind them. Also we're in a diaper. Then when the person ejaculates the juices go into a diaper and then smeared on a pacifier. Then the one who have the pleasure has to wear the diaper and suck on the pacifier til they mess themselves and need changing.