Is it normal for ur bestfriend/girlfriend to feind on you?

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I have a bestfriend i known since 3 years and shes acting obsessed with me. She constantly buys stuff for me and tells me about our future. I never knew she really liked me so when she told me this I was in shock. I lied and told her I had the same feelings then... she asked me out. i wanted to say no but I figured that would be rude and later on i would feel bad. So now she is my girlfriend. Everybody in school knows that we are together and they think that I am gay because of that. MY gilfriend gets jealous when I'm around teachers, girls, boys, fish, cats she gets jealous when i'm around my mom.. She would always want to kiss me all the time and we always have to be together. I need my space and I think she needs help...Is this normal?

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Based on 42 votes (6 yes)
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  • chezycheze
    13 years ago

    You should tell her the truth.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    You need to tell her how you feel. Let her know gently that her bahavior isn't acceptable, and that you could tell how much she liked/likes you, but you didn't have the heart to tell her no. She seemed like she was in a vulnerable state, and you didn't want to hurt her by telling her that you really didn't feel the same, so you felt a little pressured/intimidated.

    You can't continue a relationship that is already based on a lie. Don't prolong it. Get the truth out now when it's early before it becomes harder for you to walk away, and before it becomes easier for her to end up more hit/heart broken then she might be in the beginning.

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    • Ldizzy1234
      13 years ago

      Also the more you hold out, the more harder it will be for her to move on.

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