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Hi. So I'm a guy and I have a guy best friend and we are really close I mean we talk about everything, we hug each other and sleep in the same bed sometimes and we r both straight he's got a gf and once he massaged my back and I really liked it and I even unexpectedly moaned and when he hugs me it feels like heaven. Is it normal?
your fine.
girls can act this way with friends why not guys?
i personally think its normal for two good friends but i think guys were expected not to act this way for a long time...times are changing.
i have seen male friends hug and show more affection now.
This post reminds me of JD and Turk's bromance:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JQdmHZD1ugI
Anyway, it's normal to have a friend you're really close to no matter what the genders are.
:)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EJVt8kUAm9Q
Nothing wrong with it, brah.
I think it depends on the persons involved in the friendship. If those two people are touchy-feely, it's probably normal to them. Western society still thinks it's not normal though.
As for myself, I hate touching, and would not *especially touch my guy friends. A man-hug is probably the most I can give/get.
As a not touchy-feely guy, the way I show some love to my friends is through acts of service and through gifts. Touching makes me want to throw up.
I don't think it's common, and therefore not normal, for two guys to be that close, if they're straight. But not because there's anything wrong with it, it's just that most guys are too homophobic and too worried about what others will think of them. I think the two of you have a wonderful friendship and it's not gay unless you start having sex with each other.