Is it normal for turkish men in usa to expect fiance to have $$$

I am an American woman and I was engaged to a well educated Turkish man. It appears that when I changed jobs and I had a reduced income, he did not want to continue with the marriage. We are older and he and I both went through a divorce. I have noticed that it seems Turkish men only marry wealthy American women. In there a dowry system that they expect to make money from a marriage that is common knowledge but unspoken particularly a second marriage is my question but also in general? I have been told by someone that has done business over there that men either want young wives or that if they are older they do not want to diminish their wealth in marrying them. I look attractive but I am not young. He does mention this. Is this is a money-centric male dominated society even among western educated secular types? Carrie.

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  • Moonbow

    Turkish men are cheap sons-of-bitches. You should be ashamed of yourself for marrying him in the first place. Did he marry you for a green card? If so and he has it, he's just looking for greener pastures! Dump his raghead ass!

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    • Ellenna

      Read the post: she didn't marry him, the whole point is that he called it off when she was earning less

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  • imadragon

    I don't think anyone should generalize a whole gender of a whole country.

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  • Hamid37USA

    Hello. My name Hamid. Your welcome. I took great forward to come America, land of free. I plan to make a purchase for many a wife for sex and work so she can pay for me to be in movies. Thank you for your offer and I look forward to much USA fun to do.

    Friend=Hamid
    your welcome.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Hahaha... Damn turks! Where's old VLAD when we need him?

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      • shuggy-chan

        Piking people up the bum I wager

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        • RoseIsabella

          Well, Thugs be buggered!

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  • autum@83

    This is ridiculous, people are so ignorant!!! look I am sorry that your ex. did you wrong but that has nothing to to with the whole country, every country has ass holes I have met a lot of Americans who were just as bad, I was married to one for 12 year; not anymore, now I am married to a Turkish man who by the way is from the European part, not the middle east as if that would make a difference, and he is a far better catch than my first husband. Well good luck for the future, but don't sell yourself short it doesn't matter where you come from like they say "don't waste your time chasing rocks when the diamond you were after is right in front of you"

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  • dirtybirdy

    Always be wary of turkeys.

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    • Terence_the_viking

      Undercooked and you will pay for it.

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    • RoseIsabella

      What about jive turkeys?

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      • dirtybirdy

        They be happnin. And peacocks are cool. They're rave turkeys.

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  • Justsomejerk

    Excuse my blatant stereotyping, but yes, they are cunts.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I've never understood when western women are attracted to middle eastern men. I just don't get it. I've only ever been attracted to men of western European lineage.

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    • autum@83

      Hhalf of Turkey is in Europe not the middle east!!!

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      • RoseIsabella

        Yeah but for my taste in men it's the wrong half of Europe. As far as I'm concerned the West is the best!

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  • Hitlеr

    Tuerkischen untermensch

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    • RoseIsabella

      Jawohl.

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  • Oh, the irony.

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