Is it normal for things to get a little weird between you and your sister

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I wanna respect the incest rule on this site so first of all me and my sister DID NOT, I repeat DID NOT have sex. She is mentally disabled (not fully, she can talk fine in short sentences). We sleep together sometimes in our pajamas because she has this maternal need to comfort me. But one of her friends told her this was not okay and since then it's been awkward and I feel that her friend ruined our relationship.

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  • einexile
    4 years ago

    I suspect you know you haven't done anything wrong, and are mainly hurt by your sister's acceptance of what the friend told her. It's hard to comment on this because I don't know exactly what the friend said, nor do I know about your sister's reaction, but I will say this. Unabashedly speaking the truth is your absolute right and a good solution to most problems. Tell her why the friend is wrong, explain how the change in her behavior has hurt you, and don't ever be ashamed to say what you want. Your sister's condition may mean you need to put these things delicately. It doesn't affect your right to be heard and make your feelings known.

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  • RandomInternetGuru
    4 years ago

    Was it weird before the friend said something? The normative for human behavior is to act in accordance with socialization and physical reality.
    If there is no sexual overtone to the behavior, you are enabling a form a skinship.
    A stand in physical presence to serve as an outlet for a caring gesture.
    (This is based upon what you have said)
    If this behavior is not detracting from your own life, or quality there in, what transgression are you performing?
    Do deviate from normative is to transgress. What is your transgression?
    The person has told you that it's not okay - now you question it.
    I tell you that based upon what you have presented it *IS* okay - what now?
    I wish you the best in understanding your own heart and not harming your sister in the wake of what could be toxic empathy.
    Good journey to the truth.

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