Is it normal for them to still be ignoring me?

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So I got into an argumenet with my friends awhile ago *three weeks ago excact*. And it ended up with me walking away from them as well as some other words I shouldn't have said. I was angry though, and thats why I walked away..and they can't seem to understand that. So, three weeks later and they are STILL ignoring me, hard core.. and it hurts alot. There the only friends I have at this school, so I don't talk to anyone else at lunch time therefore leaving me alone to sit at my locker by myself.. is it normal there still ignoring me? Or do I have the right to be mad too? (Sorry about my spelling and stuff, im typing from my ipod touch so I mess up alot.)

You shouldn't have walked away.. 5
Yeah, it is. What you did was wrong. 7
Get new friends. 10
Give them some more space and see how it goes. 5
Ignore them back. 2
Thats selfish of them to not think of your feelings before theirs. 3
Its not normal, thats rude to treat you that way for absoulty nothing. 4
Talk to them first and see what happens. 20
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  • smartpatrol11
    11 years ago

    I know a few people this has happened to and they usually deserve it

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    11 years ago

    It depends what you said to them for us to judge if they have the right to be mad or not.
    I would try to talk to them and express how sorry I was. See how that goes. If it does not go well, then maybe it's time to meet new people.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Well I walked off, and my friend was like "WOW REALLY... GROW UP!" So im like.. "Yeah, well..fuck you". And I tried to aplogize but all they said was "Yeh, w.e" and walked off. *sigh* I suppose your right.

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  • Lookatmenow!
    11 years ago

    Maybe it's time to get some new friends if they have been ignoring you for 3 weeks now. I'm very sorry to hear your friends ignoring you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Its really not that important in the big picture, I assume by school you mean HS, but even if its college, you really dont stay in touch with friends from either HS or college, sure you may see each other here and there, but then that fades, then you may call occasionally, which then turns into email or facebook (which I would never do since facebook sucks) and then thats it.

    I know it seems like alot now, but it really isnt, and if it is that big a deal then approach them about it, but I wouldnt bother with it myself.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    It depends on the subject of the argument and what had been said.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      They've been excluding me, from hanging out with them and making plans without me while im standing right there. I got kinda fed up, and comfronted them.

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      • Avant-Garde
        11 years ago

        How did it go?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          11 years ago

          How do you think it went? ...

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          • Avant-Garde
            11 years ago

            Not well. You'd be better off getting different friends.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              11 years ago

              Well I have good news, I reunited with an old friend they didn't like. :) so I guess im okay now :)

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  • Corleone
    11 years ago

    The situation isn't really clear to us. Try to talk things out. If that doesn't work, try hanging out with other people.

    Good luck.

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    You putting in effort to fix that relationship would be admitting defeat.
    Get new friends. Show them that you don't need them.

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  • sassafrassi
    11 years ago

    This depends on what the argument was about, but is it really worth it? Just apologize and get your friends back before you're sitting all alone in the bathroom eating your lunch for the rest of the year.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      I don't wanna sound like a dick, but im pretty sure I stated I DID aplogize..

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  • Fashionforever1
    11 years ago

    Maybe you should give them some space. They might talk to you some day and realize that you're hurt from them ignoring you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      Its been three weeks.. ive been giving them all the space they need. Ive been avoiding all my favourite spots just to stay away from them..

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    Seen as this site is anonymous would you mind explaining to me what you were arguing about in the first place?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      They've been excluding me, from hanging out with them and making plans without me while im standing right there. I got kinda fed up, and comfronted them.

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