Is it normal for the girlfriend to measure her boyfriend's penis?

I want to measure my boyfriend's penis but he thinks that's weird. I have done it with a previous boyfriend and it wasn't weird between us so I don't really get it. I think it's sort of a bonding thing. We have been dating over a year and have had sex. So I am very up close and personal with it, he just has a problem with me measuring it. So, is it normal that I want to measure it?

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  • dappled

    He probably wonders why you want to do it, i.e. that you think he is sub-standard or that you want to tell all your friends his exact size.

    Personally, I wouldn't have the slightest problem with it. I think it's kind of cute and funny. I'd probably have you measuring it in various states of me being excited and get a good laugh out of it. But I also completely understand someone feeling insecure about it.

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  • Justsomejerk

    You should let him measure your vagina.

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    • Gravy

      With a beer bottle as a measuring device.

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  • ccjigsaw

    Dunno. I've never had that desire, but my boyfriend did, so that's what happened. I suppose it's the same as a guy pressuring ytou for your cup size. Sometimes you just want them to fuck off.

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  • Anime7

    Seems like an odd thing, and total paranoia fuel. Are you going to gossip with your friends about his penis? Do you think his penis doesn't measure up to your ex? Like I said, it's paranoia fuel and really just an odd request.

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  • Sarahfoot1

    I think that you probably make him feel like an object by wanting to measure his penis. Very unsympathetic and superficial.

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  • LastknownJohn

    maybe do it in a sexy way while you guys are having fun. He obviously wants to "measure up", so you'll have to do while he it erect.

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  • kelili

    If he doesn't want to do it you should not insist. Respect is important in every relationship and the each people is different. You shouldn't expect him to accept what your ex accepted.

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    • pappusharma

      Nice suggestion. I would like to add one sentence to your suggestion and that is, some guys feel awkward about measuring their penis size, it is related to a mental string. Guys think that their GF measuring the size of penis is related to sex theory. Guys think that if she find out that the size is "XX cms", she will compare it with others. It is rather very complex....
      Just one thing, respect your partner's personal space..

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  • Ayesh1996

    Girls share those things with her friends.

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  • isaiah1234

    how big was it

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  • Lonely2

    What if someone wanted to measure your nose or your hands or your feet...for what? Either you like and accept it for what is is or tough shit

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  • sweetysh

    its normal dear

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  • randypete

    I would let my girlfriend measure mine.

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  • Zeldamaniac

    I would let my girlfriend measure mine.

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  • You're either happy with his penis, and what he does with it, or you aren't. A number on a ruler measuring length shouldn't change anything. I would be uncomfortable with it too.

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  • Hailstorm258

    Okay. I think I understand. It's just I am a very private person in that what goes on in my relationship stays there. I don't gossip with friends or anything like that. I don't even have any girl friends I am close enough with to share that stuff with. (I'm an engineering student; it's all guys all the time) And I already know that my current boyfriends penis is larger than my last's and I have told him as much. I guess he just feels its weird. Thanks for the insight.
    By the way, I suggested he measure my breasts to make it less awkward for him. No dice.

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  • Steve92

    I would love it if Miss. Random Popcorn did that to me!

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  • Mando

    There's nothing wrong except you should respect his feelings.

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