Is it normal for the first kiss to make it official??

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So short version, I meet this guy, we've known each other for almost a week. We text like all the time. He flirts with me, tells me I'm cute, that he wants to kiss me, I want to kiss him to, but im a little, well alot less experienced. I've kissed one person. One Camp hookup, (make out) doesn't exactly count as good experience. I told him that I want us to get to know each other better first. We are going to a fair in a few days, is it appropriate to kiss yet?? What do I do/ say if he does?? Does it make it official?? Like, are we together if we kiss?? Is it normal to become a couple after the first kiss??

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Based on 39 votes (19 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    IIN is turning more and more in to a school teen drama every post...

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    • robbieforgotpw
      11 years ago

      I thought there was an age limit so iin wouldn't be about kids.

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        Nobody really goes by age restrictions anywhere, not just IIN.

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    It's only official after you have changed your facebook status to 'in a relationship'.

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  • Corleone
    11 years ago

    Don't fret over what label it'll give your relationship. If you both want to do it, I say kiss him.

    And don't worry, he won't dump you for being an inexperienced kisser. I mean, what else are you going to do? Kiss ten guys for practice before you kiss him?

    It's a plus if you haven't kissed much people. Makes him feel more special, and makes you more desirable.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    The only way you'll get more experience is by taking advantage of your opportunities and this, right here, is an opportunity. Don't let fear or embarrassment hold you back. Although there's no harm in making him wait a little bit.

    And yes, I think kissing does send out a message and while it doesn't make you official together, it certainly makes you more together than you were before the kiss.

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  • Abby13
    11 years ago

    It is against the law to lie about your age - even on sites like this...

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    How old are you?

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  • poy
    11 years ago

    the first time i kissed a girl was when i was also high the first time :)

    but i made out with a girl soo long and sooo hard for the first date too.

    both of em from just a few hours so yea.

    its fun and just take the opportunity, your never ganna meet the right one unless you try alot. dont be a whore though :P

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  • Short&2thepoint
    11 years ago

    Since these guys said all the complicated hullaballoo for me, I'm just going to agree with them. And say go with the flow. :D

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