Is it normal for someone who dislikes you to ask friends bother you?

-they ask their friends to bother/ harass you

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29% Normal
Based on 45 votes (13 yes)
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  • Tisgranum

    Yes, makes you wanna a buy a fucking shot gun.

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  • I remember when that happened to me, It was my ex-boyfriend who asked all my friends to harass and annoy me. (all my friends are guys). One of my 'friends' were mucking around slapping, calling me names, And the rest of hem joined in. I punched luke (The one who started it) In the face and broke his nose. Then everyone started laughing and continued shouting rude comments. So i punched them in the face too, I broke 4 noses in the 5 minutes. And when my ex-boyfriend seen that I was pissed he immediatly ran away. After all that I got sent to the princaples office and got expelled. Yes i may sound like a scary girl, And thats cause i am.
    After that day no-one every bothered me again. All my ex-friends tried to avoid me when we saw each other in the shops at the park...So my advice is to stick up for your self...Just not to much like i did

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  • Happened to me it was so bad five slammed me into a locker dumper milk on my head called me fat and slut I repotted it as bullying and the school did nothing

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  • Ldizzy1234

    I knew a guy like that in High School. We were once cool with each other but then something happened and we clearly have a lot of tension when we see each other now. In fact, we bumped into each other a couple months back and it was not a pretty evening. I ended up crying. But back in school when we had the falling out, I found out that he was telling his friends all this crap about me, and was trying to turn them against me. It was pretty fucked up.

    One day I was walking home from school, and as I was leaving they were standing outside and I heard them muttering some really mean things about me. They were always staring at me, watching me, even if I passed them by on the road! It was ridiculous. And I would catch them laughing at me sometimes.

    It really is a pathetic move on their part. What a wiener! When I have a falling out with someone or we have some kind of confrontation, I don't let anybody in on our business. I mean, whatever it was, it was between me and him, not anybody else. I would never bring other people into it. Other people don't need to know. And they don't need to fight my battles. And that goes with anybody. I would never let outsiders get into whatever is going on with me and someone else.

    Sometimes people just need to get a backbone, and leave the outsiders(their ass kissing friends) where they belong: on the outside.

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  • Avant-Garde

    If this is happening in school, you should tell a teacher or the principle. If it has extended its self into the outside world, I think it would be best to report what's happening to the police. If its getting too out of hand, you should probably get a restraining order.

    Now if it's really the other way around and you are the one whose behind the harassing, then you need to cease in such uncouth behaviour and grow the fuck up. Move on with your life.

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  • howaminotmyself

    Someone did this to me once. It was horrible and a bit traumatizing. I don't know how I did it, but I managed to become friends with the bullies who were really just sheep.

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  • is it a gang of bullies youre talking about? if it is keep clear of them and be extra boring and look like it doesnt bother you. others may have good advice

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