Is it normal for someone to hate me because i'm in their eyes, spoiled

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I can get anything I want, but I don't think I'm a bad person.

If I wanted a new car, I could get it in a few days, but I'd never ask for that unless I needed it.

If I wanted another computer, I could get it tomorrow. I have done so before and my parents don't mind it.

If I wanted to throw a house party for friends, it would happen overnight. The last party I had was literally spontaneous. I invited 16 girls and 8 guys and they came within a few hours because my partys are always good and they never have to bring anything. My mom loves helping and will go out and buy the stores out.

I get a massage twice a week and a pedicure once a month. Honestly, I didn't ask for this, my mom just gives it to me.

I do work right now and I have to buy my own clothes, but my mom will buy any accessories I want.

I have over 6,000 dvds in my room, but about 4,000 of them were given to me without me asking. The others I requested on a birthday list. Like, for my last birthday, I put 22 dvds on the list and that's what I got, but that's for my birthday.

Okay, I do chores, I pick up after myself, I keep things organized, I help my mom and dad when they need me.

I don't do a lot of chores like all I do is dishes and laundry every 2 days or so.

I didn't ask for this life but my friends are always bitching about me saying I'm a spoiled idiot and this hurts me and depresses me. I never asked to be spoiled and I honestly dont think I am. My house isnt a mansion or anything it's got 5 bedrooms though and 4 baths but its NOT super super huge or anything and yeah.

Why do they do this to me? I dont want them to hate me, but they keep complaining to me. I love my friends, but I dont want to lose them over this.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    welcome to being born into a "rich" family where no one seems to understand that it isn't your fault that you have all this stuff and they ignore you because of it

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  • DudeUrFuglyXox
    13 years ago

    theyre jealous and angry that u have so much, dont get upset just be happy with ur family

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  • SadMostOfTheTime
    13 years ago

    I agree with ruralfrights. You actually know what you have and you understand the value of these things. The fact that your friends are jealous should make you think twice about whether they are truly your friends.

    Make friends who don't have that kind of materialistic way of thinking. You are blessed as are your parents to be able to live the way you do, DON'T FEEL BAD ABOUT IT! They worked hard to give you the life you have. Enjoy it too bc it could stop one day or when you stop living with them to be your own person (which I hope you will do to earn your way in this world, a self accomplishment and creates self worth). These friends of yours are spoiled bc they don't appreciate anything THEY have and that they have a friend like you who puts up with their attitudes.

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  • ruralfrights
    14 years ago

    The fact that you were able to practically inventory your belongings tells me that you appreciate them. Truly spoiled people wouldn't have a clue and wouldn't care how many CDs they have. Also, being concerned about what your friends think (I know! It's not supposed yo matter.....read on) shows that you're not self absorbed. So, your grateful and sensitive. What a great person you must be...not a spoiled one

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  • expedition_holland
    14 years ago

    comfy definatly discribes it best. enjoy while you can, perhaps do a bit of survivaling to relevate things but you're not spoiled. people are just bitching about you because the're jelous, just ignore them or get friends who aren't so jelous

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  • ComboBreaker
    14 years ago

    Only 5 bedrooms and 4 bathrooms? You trolling?

    You have a comfy life style. Take advantage of it and build your self a great life off it. Forget about people makeing a little fun of you for it, thats normal. You feel bad and to be honest it seems like you feel victimised by your parents wealth. Ignore what every one thinks and just make your self into something. You're alot luckyer than most, alot luckyer. Take advantage of it. Dont waste time and money on meeningless things. Make something of yourself. Become a doctor or a scientist or something. What interests you? Do that. The last thing on your mind should be your friends teaseings.

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