Is it normal for someone to do this?

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Just wondering if its normal for this to happen.
I met and girl at a party and we exchanged numbers and later that night ended up hooking up. After 6-8 weeks of texting every day for hours on end, visiting each other at work and hanging out when we could she invited me over to her house and later that afternoon I eventually met her parents and her mother invited me to stay for dinner and I had dinner with her and her parents. After dinner I told her that I wanted to start dating properly and she said as long as I take her on a romantic date. We tried to organise a date but it was difficult due to my university exams and she was in her last week of high school. (by the way we are both 18) Anyway we were still texting just as much until her last day of classes at school when for some unknown reason we stopped talking. I decided o give it a while as she had very important exams, I messaged maybe once a week during that month but never got a reply to any text and eventually found out that two weeks after we stopped talking she started dating another guy.
Is it normal for someone to do that to someone that they really cared about?

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Based on 73 votes (15 yes)

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Terence_the_viking

11 years ago

Thats bollox mate you need to go over there and shit in her tea.

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  11 years ago
  
  Must admit I did contemplate egging her house but her parents were lovely people and I decided to be the bigger person
  
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  - Terence_the_viking
    
    11 years ago
    
    Good for you i would've stole and soiled her knickers and then post them back to her.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      11 years ago
      
      I'm still pissed off about it but I really miss her, she meant a lot to me
      Still contemplating seeking out her boyfriend and roughing him up
      
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      - Terence_the_viking
        
        11 years ago
        
        Just remember kid it takes two to Tango.
        
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        11 years ago
        
        That's very true and I do agree but call me stupid but it's hard to blame someone when she was probably the perfect girl for me considering we had so much in common and liked practically everything about each other
        
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Vanguard

11 years ago

People are fucked. She found someone else during that month and didn't have the guts to tell you? Piss weak. I agree with top commenter, shit in her tea.

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NothingxCrazy

11 years ago

Oooh, harsh.. but roughing anyone up won't change anything. Chances are she didn't even tell him she was talking to someone else so he is more than likely an innocent party in this. She's the one that hurt you and decided to go off with some other guy. The fact that she couldn't even tell you is disrespectful. She just left you hanging with hope. There's nothing worse than that. Why would you want her back in your life after she did that? Someone like that is not worth associating with, unfortunately.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  You raise a very valid point I think the only reason I still want her in my life is the fact that we both liked practically everything about each other and she was with me through a tough phase of my life but you raise a valid point
  
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    11 years ago
    
    Maybe she'll realize she made a mistake and run back to you. Could you ever trust her enough to want to be with her again?
    
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      11 years ago
      
      I can be very forgiving but even if she does come back to me it will take me a long time to trust her again, a very long time
      
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KBSH

11 years ago

You can just move on.

Make her jealous by making out with some new random chick everyday. Be a player! Enjoy life.

Also, seriously contemplate shitting in her tea. She deserves it.

Alternatively, if you are extremely evil and have completely lost your moral compass and are driven with a passion to have revenge in ANY way possible, add pepper to her tampons. Watch her and give a devil smile when she cries.

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Kaory182

11 years ago

Just think about it this way she's the one missing out not you. This happens a lot unfortunately but you have to move on.

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Imsupernormal

11 years ago

You should have gone out with her when you had the chance.

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Darkoil

11 years ago

You missed your chance.

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sYki

11 years ago

Shes young and seems to be the type of person just looking for short term experience.

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kateeishappy

11 years ago

It happenes all the time sweety. :(

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pancakesorwaffles

11 years ago

Yeah it happens ,she was too scared to break up so she just stopped talking to u :( lots of people do this >=[

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  11 years ago
  
  People need to grow a backbone then and face up to things, I would have preferred if she had have just told me
  
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marbear

11 years ago

I am a girl but my bf did something similar to me ( I was 14 he was 13 ) and I'm still upset about it( this was like a month ago , I am now 15)!! It may hurt for awhile bud but don't do anything unreasonable or rash!! Other girls may turn you down for it!!

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  11 years ago
  
  Luckily I haven't done anything yet, I have just avoided her when she has came into my work
  
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