Is it normal for someone to act like this?

Ok, there is this girl in my classes and she thinks i'm her best friend. And she is really annoying and loud. It was ok to bear with, i never really hung out with her. But after a while, she started texting me, and talking to me and won't leave me alone. She always has a boyfriend because she thinks she is all that, a week after i broke up with my boyfriend of 1 year, she asks him out. I was furious, but being the nice person i was, i said i wasn't comfortable with it, but she could if she wanted to. Later that night, she comes crying to me because he rejected her, asking me to make her feel better. When i said i had homework to do, she said " Fine, be a bitch!" And stormed out. Later that week she " apologized" and came to my home uninvited for dinner. I made a letter saying i no longer want to be friends, and signed it, and she still will not leave me alone. She thinks the note was " forged" even though multiple times i have spoken to her about this. So, is is normal for someone to act like this? Sorry if it is too long.

Voting Results
13% Normal
Based on 46 votes (6 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 9 )
  • MrsBailey9

    Ignore her, block her and if she persists continue to simply say, " I don't want to be friends with you." and walk away... Be the mature one.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • cracksontheceiling

    Normal you say?
    No it is not; have I encountered several people to act this way? -Ohhhhhh yess.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • alv1592

    Do you know how to block her # on your phone? I think you should do that. Also block her on facebook if you have a page there. Her behavior is way too obsessive.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • -WhySoSerious-

    First of all, I reject your apology. It was pretty long.

    Second of all, (i'm being serious now.) Tell her you want to talk, don't yell at her in front of everyone, it's just not the right thing to do. Anyways, tell her what your problem is with her, don't be a bitch to her, just bring it in a good and respectful way. Tell her that you don't see each other as friends. No one is forced to be anyone's friend. It's your simplest of rights to choose who you want to be friends with. Even after you guys talk it out and agree that you're not friends, be nice to her, give her a hug, and tell her I'll see you around. Let her know that you don't hate her as a person, it's just your personalities don't match for friendship. And don't hold a grudge after you guys talk, always be mature about it.
    Sorry if my comment is too long

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • RoseIsabella

      I don't think the give a hug part is good. It's condescending and sends mixed messages. Most people don't wanna hug people they don't like.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • So why did you give her your number anyways? She sounds like she has a serious problem. Sounds like one of those horribly boring chick flic murder movies too. I hope she won't physically hurt you because you keep telling her to gtfo. Instead of writing that letter you should of told her in person, seems like it's the only way she might understand. She's crazy.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • RoseIsabella

    Congratulations, you have a stalker. My condolences. If you haven't told her you don't want to be friends then do so but if you have already told her then cut all ties with her. Don't engage with her. Block her calls, texts and emails. Just walk away and disengage as much as possible. She sounds hella scary and if she's anything like she sounds whenever people like that get two or more words out of the object of their obsession(you) they just get encouraged that there's a possibility of reconciliation. She's clearly a textbook psycho bitch as evidenced by the going after your ex and then coming to you for sympathy after he rejects her thing. Of course the first red flag was the whole thinking your best friends when you never actually hang out. She probably comes from a really fucked up broken family but that's not your fault. All the best to you and when you set a boundary with her don't budge.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • moonstruck

    ew

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • bubber

    If she doesn't hear you talk, a knock upside the head will make her listen.

    Comment Hidden ( show )