Is it normal for sex to never feel good

Sex for me is very uncomfortable and sometimes un-enjoyable.. I am afraid it will never feel good. Please help !

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Based on 162 votes (49 yes)
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  • Terence_the_viking

    I really love these vague questions.

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  • IvoryLatte

    If you are a woman, it would most likely be due to three different reasons, all of which are completely normal. 1. It could be that you have a naturally occurring phenomenon where the muscles around the vaginal canal spasm, thus closing off the vaginal opening from any penetration. This is called vaginismus, and it's usually triggered when the patient is extremely anxious. This is curable through physical therapy, so don't panic and seek out your doctor for diagnosis and treatment. 2. If your doctor does not diagnose you with vaginismus, then consider the amount of lubrication that you use. Some women simply need more lube than others. 3. Are you participating in foreplay, or are you just jumping right into it? If it's the latter, then you should discuss with your significant other about your needs for foreplay. Foreplay is a way for you to get sexually aroused in order to prepare your body for intercourse. Discuss different methods that make you and your partner feel good.
    If you are a man...then I'm not entirely sure. I'm sorry. If it persists then I advise you to meet with your doctor.

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  • You're doing it wrong.

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    • thatchickyouhate

      dammit. i was gonna say this.

      2 weeks too late. boo.

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      • I love you for being so honest.

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  • thegypsysailor

    A) how old are you?
    B) how many times have you had sex?
    C) are you straight or gay?
    D) is your partner experienced or are the two of you trying to figure it out?
    I think some of would like to help, but as DubstepismyMJ said; "would you care to elaborate?".

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    • RomeoDeMontague

      Yes all this information is needed to give you an answer. You cant expect help if you wont tell anyone what the issue is. Its not like we are mind readers. The closest someone could get is to hacking your computer. Though who is going to hack it just to assist you with an issue? You must be Trolling.

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  • 6007

    No, it's not dear :(

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  • Jimbobasaur

    I wish I was asexual

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  • watcher2005

    Buy a tube of KY Jelly and don't be shy about using plenty. If you are not lubricated enough naturally and nervous about what you are doing or where you are doing it, you will tense up, making your vagina tight and dry. Then nothing can slide in and around, and nobody is comfortable. It's not comfortable for him either.

    There's no such thing as 'too big' if you're slippery. Go slow and easy. Enjoy the moment.

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  • peterr

    Tell him to put it in your cunt instead of your ass.

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  • ccjigsaw

    Probably need foreplay. If you are fore-playing, then there's a possibility he is to big for you. Really depends on what kind of uncomfortable feeling you are experiencing

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  • No love, no fun.

    Sometimes if a girl don't feel it, she won't feel him. Or it'll hurt.

    It's not wrong to have sex without love, but the best sex will always be with someone you have feelings for. Whether those feelings are fuck-me-now-horniness or full blown deeper than bone love.

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  • PureLikeSnow

    I will elaborate once you give us a proper synopsis of your issue.

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  • yesnomaybeso

    I guess you just need practice?

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  • gummy_jr

    A little bit more foreplay?

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  • I need to feed...on women.

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  • DubstepismyMJ

    Why, would you care to elaborate? You must have some kinks here and there?

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