Is it normal for people to target introverts?

I feel targeted for being an introvert (not the same as shy) like people that don't get or don't like why your quiet so they try to make an example out of you...for example,A few days ago my professor brings up the subject of quiet people(she does so often while quickly glancing towards me) she says
>Prof: class what do we think when we think about quiet people.
>guy 1: that their dumb/slow
>guy 2: that their stuck up and think their better than others
>girl3: that they may have some form of autism.
next management class
>Prof: there are two types of people A and B a) are out going and resilient and social b) are slow they lack the self esteem to open up and are afraid to engage.
all while every one silently giggled and stared at me and the other quiet ones there. I literally take class and just go home immediately afterwards witch seems to bother people this is also how I behaved at work and it also caused problems, people apparently got mad that I just worked for my paycheck and went home without getting involved in my coworkers drama...it's normal for people to ask me if I'm sad,mad,slow,autistic,think I'm better,when clearly I'm not.how is being quit translate into all of this?! My question. is it normal to be targeted for being too quiet if so did any of you have these problems? and Why(literally why!) are extroverts so hateful towards there quieter brethren.

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  • disthing

    What kind of shitty class are you taking?

    There's introversion and extroversion, but most people will fluctuate between the two depending on mood.

    It's common to stigmatise the extremes of both - extroversion as being needy, attention-seeking, arrogant, high maintenance, introversion as being socially awkward, arrogant, weird.

    Because society relies upon human interaction and most of us have an instinctive desire to socialise in some capacity, the avoidance of human interaction is seen as a negative; perhaps as counter-productive, rude, unhelpful or as a rejection.

    Your co-workers, for example, probably assume you don't want to socialise because you don't like them, so react negatively to the feeling of rejection.

    In fact I'd say a lot of the negative reception you're getting is due to presumptuousness, and you could save yourself a lot of trouble by being open about your introversion. When people ask you about why you're so withdrawn or evasive, explain that you're quite introverted, that you just naturally keep yourself to yourself and it's nothing to do with not liking people or being shy. Or even if they don't ask, if you get the impression they might be unhappy about it, pre-empt them and explain how you feel.

    If you clear up any misunderstandings in a friendly manner before they arise, you might be able to avoid the negativity.

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    • shitty_titties

      The only problem is that people don't ask me anything at all they seem to make up their minds pretty quickly. people judge others instantly on first appearances and then lock you in to that stereotype for example I lift my hand to talk and immediately someone starts talking over me if I get mad and say : yo dude I'm talking can you chill out for a sec... I don't just become the quiet guy I also become the angry or resentful quiet guy you see what I mean. Also while I understand the communication is vital...mindless babble is not. If I have to say something vital I will say it.

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      • NeuroNeptunian

        Don't be silent about it, when they talk to you, openly admit in a humorous manner that you prefer Netflix to people lol. Try to make it seem funny and not "I hate people"-esque.

        I'm sorry for you, though. I have never had such a rough experience in school. For a class full of grown adults, they do sound like jackasses.

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      • iEatZombies_

        My fiance goes through crap for being an introvert, as well as being 6'5 and in shape. Unfortunately I gotta get off here right now, but I'll catch up on this tonight.

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  • handsignals

    Yeah, people are starting to be real assholes about it.

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  • The lesser elements of society are apparently threatened by anything that strikes them as too peculiar; their feeble minds just can't comprehend or tolerate such things, so they lash out. After all, it's said that the strongest form of fear is that of the unknown.

    It seems as if these people act in such a way out of pure cowardice; after all, it's easy to team up with your homies and pick a fight with a loner, with someone who you damn well know won't have anyone to back them up. Again: pure, filthy cowardice.

    With that said, just wait until you have to put up with the type of stuff that I've been through. All I can say is that these people do nothing but validate and fortify my misanthropic inclinations.

    Then again, victims have long memories.

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    • SubstationSubCurb111713

      I'm not sure I agree with the greatest fear being the fear of the unknown. My girlfriend has nightmares about a spider with big teeth who rapes her when she opens the door after he uses his penis to knock at it. If someone knocked at the door and she said, "Who is it?" and the person said, "I'm a little old lady who has brought you some marmalade, but you don't know me yet", I bet she'd let her in before spider penis rapist!

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  • mscurriouus

    Both introverts and extroverts are capable of having mental disorders or social "problems"... Wow, what a pompous group. Do some research on the introverted geniuses that contributed greatly to society and knowledge and kindly hand that to your teacher with a classy and intelligible "pwn'd" kind of response on it. How could he not respect that, right? Maybe he just wants to see some kind of fire, even if a little bit, in your own way, and doesn't know how to get it. He might realize that he can actually learn from you and treat introverts better. It is true, society is alienating the introverts. However, I have seen articles where the introverts fight back and bring this issue to light. Introverts are important. Sorry you have such a sucky class setting. That's not cool at all.

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  • FireFlower

    Not necessarily introverts but people who are quiet. I have experienced this first hand and it really hurt me.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Whatever happened to the old stereotype of quiet people being mysterious?

    What class is this anyway? I'm curious, don't cha know?
    ;-)

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  • hactar

    Just ignore them. These people are what True described. Try to talk to some of them individually and you'll realise they won't have the balls to make joke of you anymore. And, if that professor try to mess up with you again, you may just respond with a sarcastic remark about her and she'll be pissed of.

    Anyway, you shouldn't think every extrovert act this way. You're surrounded by retarded and immature people and you should be proud you aren't one of them. You still have to try to open up and search for social connections in your class. Talk to the ones that you feel you could relate to.

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  • loopoo

    Introverts shit all over extroverts.

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    • green_boogers

      Especially during grade school shooting rampages.

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    • yoongies

      well, not all

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  • Freedom_

    Sounds more like a shitty small town high school. If you weren't using "professor" asa cover-up for your age, get the fuck out of that place! Such prejudices are supposed to dissipate with age. Disthing's comment was a great all around; use your introvert mind to eliminate the prejudice of you're peers.

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    • shitty_titties

      (If you weren't using "professor")...cute... nope more like small town college (weather you believe it or not)
      Really christian and such the kind of place where if you have you're own opinion your a smart ass...

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  • shuggy-chan

    well im a strange balance of both, but it hard to expect the masses to be sensitive or logical.

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  • imadragon

    Some people would just rather have an intelligent conversation instead of a simple one.

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    • Shoefish

      I'm curious as to what you mean by this. Just because someone has a lot to say, doesn't mean they have anything intelligent to say. I usually find quiet people to be smarter but it can go either way.

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      • imadragon

        That's what I meant. Small talk is just awkward.

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        • Shoefish

          Oh, good! I wasn't sure if you meant that or that introverts are simple. I don't get why anyone thinks that.

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  • thegypsysailor

    It's Darwin's theory of survival of the fittest, at it's most basic level.
    The species is dying because society protects the weak and infirm, but nobody gives a shit, because being politically correct now is much more important than the eventual extinction of the species.

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    • EccentricWeird

      If any comment begins with the phrases "In Darwin's Theory" or "In Evolution", and the poster does not have a graduate degree in Evolutionary Biology, it's probably safe, and much more pleasant, to ignore the rest of the comment.

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      • mscurriouus

        LOL a thumbs up just wasn't enough.

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    • green_boogers

      Except extroverts depend on talented introverts to engineer precision weaponry for world domination.

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    • shitty_titties

      what does being quiet have to do with anything if any one is weak and infirm it's the freaks that live hooked up to cell phone screen or Facebook and call that shit productive...talking about mindless babble(:Yo dawg did you see Lebron last night Yo shit was tight yo)(meanwhile talking about the Ukrainian conflict turns you into a smart ass) All I see are plastic personalities,relationships and fake friends not to mention people who are borderline retarded yet somehow are allowed to function in society...That's what killing the species

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