Is it normal for people not to like you?

I'm a 20 year old woman, and I'm at university. Everyone seems to find it incredibly easy to make friends, but not me. I am pretty (I'm not being arrogant, I know this for a fact), blonde, I'm never ever nasty to someone unless they are nasty to me,I don't dress sluttily or anything out of the ordinary really (just jeans and tshirts and crap). I'm intelligent and funny, but for some reason I just really don't seem to get on with girls, they just seem to take against me really badly. For example, in freshers week I was sitting with my flatmates and another group of girls chatting, and one of the girls was like "You know when you just KNOW you don't like someone, you just KNOW you aren't gunna get on with them?" And was looking right at me, like wtf I haven't even spoken to you yet! That girl went on to make things difficult for me all year, it always seems to be like that - I'll get on fine with most of the girls in the group, but the group leader always takes against me and like, wont let me be friends with any of them (you know what I mean?) I get on with most guys pretty well, I have two brothers and my sense of humour is maybe more masculine but its not good to have all male friends because they end up hitting on you or getting girlfriends who get pissed off about you hanging out together. I don't listen to pop music or read gossip magazines or anything like that, would this maybe help? I dunno wtf I'm doing wrong! Is this normal?

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Based on 32 votes (26 yes)
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  • Big deal,get over it.Most of the reople I've met-since childhood,about 75-80% wound up simply not liking me to downright hating me.You're probably a lot better off being alone by yourself for life,providing that you never have to ask anyone for favors or other kinds of shit.In other words-Be self-reliant and tell others to go fuck themselves whenever they need some kind of shit.You'll be o.k.

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  • kurniad001

    She probably had past experiences with a girl who has a close resemblance with you. Its her personal issue.

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  • sparrowfeed

    here's a suggestion: don't make friends with stupid sorority-girl bimbos.

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  • treehugga

    i have d exact same prblm ...4 years ive bin havin dis prblm ..pretty funny intelligent friendly but ppl just dnt wana b my m8 4 sum reason n i keep gettin friends n they end up ditching me.. recently i asked one of the few friends i have left wats d deal n she sed she feels insecure arnd me cus im so pretty... but i dno if dats true.. i read a magazine b4 about a few grls who had no friends cus they were pretty ..n dese girls weren't even THAT pretty... but then i dnt get ... LOADS of really gorgeous girl have LOOOADS of friends.. so whats that all about? =(

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  • buttintoit

    Get used to it. Some women are totally insecure about other women. It sucks but it's true. Just ignore them or call them on it if they're being nasty. They're just bitches.

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  • kellstar

    They sound jealous! If she hadn't even spoken to u yet or had a conversation with u then she must feel threatened by your looks

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  • Ames21

    Tell them to fuck off. Try making friends with people who are different then those people. Bottom line be happy with youself. You don't need them!

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  • ComeFlyWithMe

    It's probably just jealousy.

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