Is it normal for parents to reject their gay sons and daughters?

Almost everyone I know who is gay has been rejected immediately when they came out. They came out before becoming financially independent, ended up nearly on the street, in all sorts of dysfunctional relationships and bottom-of-the-barrel careers.

I'm not thrilled about being gay myself, and I've slipped up about my sexuality once too many times, and I'm worrying that they're catching on and this situation is five minutes to critical. I've saved about 14 grand ever since I first realized I was gay at fifteen, so I'm fully ready to get out of here in a jiffy.

But is there a sort of psychological process essential to evolution that causes parents to reject their gay sons and daughters? Is this just a normal part of the way we have evolved, similar to universal repudiation of social ills like drugs and prostitution? I see it happen 100% with everyone I know of. I have NEVER seen ONE accepting parent or family member. I'm anticipating the worst, and am fully ready to make any compromise necessary to preserve the integrity and continued operation of my family unit (including making any scientifically sound attempts at changing my sexuality for them)...but I fear their reaction may be too sobering.

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Comments ( 9 )
  • SandsOfTheMind

    Society of today is still homophobic. You shouldn't hide who you are.

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  • randomjelly

    I live in Texas and my parents were totally accepting and treat my girlfriend like another daughter. I believe it just depends on the parents. Society is changing and so are the parents. Some just have trouble overcoming the stigma they were raised to believe.

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  • ellaisrad

    My mum was wonderful when I came out, she just doesn't give a shit as long as I'm happy, plus she loves my girlfriend (:

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  • BoredGuy

    "But is there a sort of psychological process essential to evolution that causes parents to reject their gay sons and daughters?"

    Maybe the continuance of the species(or just their genes)? :P

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  • GeorgeMcBob

    Unfortunately, it is all too common. If your parent's brains are infected with the bible virus they will behave in a primitive and bigoted manner.

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  • DudeUrFuglyXox

    noway they should still love their kids, i wouldnt care if my kid was gay, ginger, stupid or whatever id still be there for them, some people are just stupid

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  • xino00

    I would SURELY reject my son/daughter if the motherfarker is gay! >:/

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    • U are the perfect example of y ppl r so stupid.

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    • GeorgeMcBob

      Well, to have a son or daughter you'd first have to move out of your mom's basement and lose your virginity.

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