Is it normal for my wife to go off sex after a threesome

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My wife and i recently had a threesome with a guy that I know.
We met my friend in a club and had quite a lot to drink and after we returned to our flat with my friend, we carried on the drinking and one thing led to another and all we ended up sharing the bed and me and my friend both had sex with my wife.

It was amazing for all of us, but since then, as far as my wife is concerned, our love life has virtually ended. Is that normal, she says she doesn't know why she's lost interest in sex.

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  • Iwpimm
    6 years ago

    What started as a fun idea has changed your relationship dynamic. You're no longer exclusively committed to each other since someone else has engaged in sex between the two of you.

    You went from the man she was sharing life and sex with, to a man that let his guard down and allowed someone else to penetrate the barriers of exclusive commitment.

    She is probably seeing you differently and questions the way you truly feel about her. You went against the nature of being with one person. Otherwise Why not be single and open to whatever you want.

    Why on Earth does someone else being inside your SO seem like a good idea or relationship saver? Seriously? Something like 92% of couples that have a threesome end up divorced or broken up.

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    • sodapop123
      6 years ago

      Cant just blame him though, shes the one who also allowed it to happen. Dont say it was the drink because they were all sloshed. She broke that commitment just as much as he did.

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    • ChurchHotel
      6 years ago

      92% ay? Where did you get that number from?

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      • gaia
        6 years ago

        I was wondering as well and what do couples in 8% do? they ignore that and just go on with life or what?

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  • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
    6 years ago

    Seriously I'm not trying to be a party killa, there's nothing wrong with having a drunken ass threesome BUT your supposed to have this conversation sober first of whether or not it's okay and not crossing your partners boundaries. I mean what if instead it was her and her mate with his dick up your arsehole are you happy with that?

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  • barstool
    6 years ago

    You dun fucked up. Only way to even it all out is have another threesome with a woman this time.

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  • Youngvictoria
    6 years ago

    In all seriousness, she might be concerned you're gay. Like did you mess around with the guy at all? Maybe she wasn't expecting that.

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  • shuggy-chan
    6 years ago

    Thats cause she is totally banging your friend

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    she gets her sex somewhere else now dumbass.

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  • kelliekelliekellie
    6 years ago

    Maybe that was the worst idea ever.

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  • TheShyGirlFromWork
    6 years ago

    Well, threesomes are fun, and I like them. But I never have a 3some with "a friend", as you did. THAT was your mistake, your wife, and your friend... SERIOUSLY? Did you even THINK before you considered that? Find a stranger... in a different town (far away)... someone who you will not likely see again. THEN, have the 3some. DUMBASS.

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  • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
    6 years ago

    Well I'm thinking that if drinking played a massive part in this threesome lets be honest that would essentially equal rape. Drunk people can't consent, I know a situation where drinking led to my mate getting fucked by her roommate, point is if she wasn't drunk she'd never have aloud it. She swears up and down its not rape though that she was just fucked up, that's denial but I let that go immediately because I was thought fuck whatever makes you feel better. To add to that in the state that it happend in, it legally absolutely equals rape. Okay so, possibly she's not okay with what happend even if she is okay with it if you know what I mean. See thing is, if in her mind she felt she trusted you so much she could get that fucked up around you and you'd protect her no matter what well fill in the blanks. Might just ask her aye babe are you disapointed with me for letting fuck face stick it in you? See maybe, it was only amazing for you and since you've made that clear she's no interest in arguing about it.

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    • barstool
      6 years ago

      Fuck. Never knew I'd been raped so many times.

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      • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
        6 years ago

        I've personally been guilty of it myself to be honest with straight girls, I try so hard not to do it now and keep myself in check. But... on that note its ruined the friendship even if everything seems okay at first it dwindles because I think deep down inside they know what I did was fucked up and sorry wasn't good enough. They said it was fine and blamed themselves also BUT lets be fucking real if I was a massive black cocked dude hung like a giant horse and I stuck it up my good stright mates tight ass hole and came up inside his tubes what would you think of me then? Not to mention said they enjoyed it and had a great time and told me I was amazing at eating they pussy. But I got a feeling that something else was there that wasn't there before and it wasn't love.

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        • barstool
          6 years ago

          was...was it cum?

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          • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
            6 years ago

            Was what cum? I didn't cum in the bitch I've no cock... Oh... haha no, I don't know what it was something like resentment I believe even though she acted like it was all good... I think she was in denial, denial is when you lie to yourself and believe it to make yourself feel better. So I'm just taking a guess here that the friendship deteriorated because at some point she came out of denial and was hit with a dose of reality. So it's not like she intentionally lied... she was trapped in denial and probably didn't even know it herself at first. They say denial is one of the worst or most detrimental lies you can tell, because you literally believe it to be true in your mind.

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            • barstool
              6 years ago

              Whoa...not cum, but denial. Fuck. That's heavy. Hey, what happened when she came out of denial - like, how did you know when reality slapped her, what happened?

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  • dicka912
    6 years ago

    It is not normal. Most women who have some different kind of sex is turned on by it and want sex more than ever.

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    • JonathanOo
      6 years ago

      Or they are disgusted with you, your friend, and themselves after that experience. She could be hiding something from you. I know a woman that no longer kisses or does anything romantic at all because of a similiar experience. She was haunted by something bad in her past and the sexual excursion brought it back. She is still married but 15 plus years later and she still can't do those things

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      • Yennifer_Of_Vengerburg
        6 years ago

        Agreed. There's something going on with her and you need to get to the bottom of it if you want to save your marriage, if you do want to save it I just hope that its not too late.

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      • dicka912
        6 years ago

        That is truly unfortunate. yes, some past experiences are bad ones and will cause some strange behavior. Good comment.

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