Is it normal for my wife to be so mean.

Tell her to go stand naked in front of a mirror with a kid on each side and see what she has to offer to someone else. I'd leave her in a heartbeat and make her come crawling back. I have been where you are, and you need to start looking for the other man she is comparing you to. That's exactly what's going on. Man up, stand up, and look out for yourself!

You have your own business AND you cook? Dump her and marry me.

try couples counciling if she might try it you can only do so much lifes too short to be unhappy. any good recipies? lol!

If she is like that I think it's time to move on. It's obvious she is a control freak and not happy. You don't deserve to be treated like that for no reason.

Kick that bitch to the curb and find someone who will appreciate what you will do for a woman.

Leave her, you shouldn't stay in an unhappy relationship for any reason ( religion, kids, etc..). I come from a broken home and I'm so happy my parents split up when I was three! I didn't have to deal with them living together and fighting all the time. If she is unwilling to communicate with you to try and make things better u should leave her.

Leave that jerk!

Uh, ur wife is a beyotch!

has it always been that way? that sounds like abuse, really. go to counseling...? remember you cant change people, so consider leaving before it really brings you down.

Take the advice of people for once in your life...esp if you have no kids...LEAVE HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You sound like a great guy! You work and cook her meals she doesn't appreciate. She won't change, try talk to her but if she calls u a looser and disrepects u like that don't put up with it! U say she knows u won't leave her... Y wouldn't u? We only live once and do u really want to live it with your nasty horrible wife

I have same problem help me with advice

I am a woman myself and your wife's a bitch. I know you love her but you have to do what's best and let it go. Leave. Find someone that will appreciate all that you are and do. Small words like loser can do lots of damage whether if female or male.

There are two sides to every story. And it's rediculous how excepted getting divorced ESP when you have children is these days. Work on it change or switch something up. Get help. Go to a counselor. Read a self help book like Dr Laura. Have your wife do it with you if she will. It's crazy how everyone is so willing to say leave em and pull people apart rather then encourage them to stay to together and communicate. Ya knw WORK things out. Good luck

This sounds similar to me as well. My wife is mean. She's a bitch, and she has no self-respect. She's mean to my children all the time and I hate it. On top of it she's mean to me. She claims to love me but would rather play with her iPad, Nintendo DS or chat on her computer. We seldom have conversations at home. She's a stay at home mom (basically an excuse to do nothing. My daughter tells me she does nothing but sit on her electronics all day), but when I get home, I have to be the one to determine dinner after getting home at 5:30pm, clean up the house, and play with the kids. She does nothing.

Whats complicated with your situation is the baby. Mine is the same. I love my kids and I'm going to stick it out. But once my youngest turns 18, I'm divorcing her. Don't make the same mistake. Get custody of that baby and leave her ass.

(when I said no self-respect, she never takes care of her self. Hard to have sex with a woman who showers 2 times a month and never brushes her teeth. Sex and kissing are very challenging for me).

oh my God. I can't believe how similar this is to me. My wife and I both work but I'm the primary bread winner. I get home before her so I cook the meals. If left to her, we would have fast food every night. My daughter is in college and my son is in high school. I feel it's important to have at least one meal together at the dinner table each day. I do the dishes, vacuum, etc. She does do laundry, but everything I do is not enough. And she nags so much. As crazy as it is, I don't know if I can find the strength to leave. I worry about the kids, or course.

I'd love to have you ! Any woman would. A man who can cook & run a business ?! I'd feel bad letting you do both ,...

Maybe your wife is stressed from the baby . Just wait it out . And DON'T be afraid to leave her.

she wont listen to you bcuz she knows u wont leave her?? wtf?? why do u put up with that shit??? you are the one supporting the household. you have the leverage, yet she's got u so pussy whipped you cant see straight!! grow some nuts and stand up for yourself!!

My wife is exactly the same. I am convinced that she is mentally ill. I tried to make things better but nothing is ever good enough for her. I also cook and clean the house on top of working full time. My youngest child is going to be eighteen and I think it's almost time for me to move on. Are house is almost paid off and I really hate the idea of starting over again, but I know she will never change. She will always hate me and blame me for her misery.

Sounds to me like she might be suffering from a form of depression. You mentioned that you have a baby perhaps she has postpartum? Anyways sometimes it is hard for someone to admit that they are feeling down and so on so i would try talking to her family doctor about her behaviour and so on. I hope you are able to get over this rough patch and on to better times again :)

i didn't think i could leave my abusers and neither did anyone else, but i did. I left someone i loved very much becuase they were disrespectful and cruel to me. it was hard but at the same time very joyful.

but you have responsibility in this too. if you are a victim of her and her doormat, why would she show you respect. you gave her all the power.

if she doesn't appreciate that you are a real man because you provide for her child and her, and what a gentleman you are becuase you make an effort to respect her and be courteous, its her loss.

maybe she is not what you think she i. i would reevaluate her character if i were you...

aww im sorry