Is it normal for my wife to be like this?

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I had an affair and 6 months ago i moved back home in the light of my wife and I working on our marriage.we have made huge strides we can hold hands and hug but now when it comes to being intimate my wife says shes not physically attracted to me to want to be intimate and that she dont know if she ever be again and shes stuck.But she doesnt want me to stop loving her but shes still uncomfortable with me holding her hand and the long hugs.I told her its a phase like eveything else was and that once she gets past the anger maybe she will feel that way again.She is also form another state and wants to move back home. we sleep in seperate bed rooms and have since i moved back in in january.i lately started waking her up in the morings with back rubs and she didnt complain now she is say she is uncomfortable and doesnt have that physical want to be to intimate. Is she scared?

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  • tinfoilhats
    12 years ago

    If you are truly sorry and she took you back try counselling. The trust is broken, sometimes it is repairable and sometimes not. Time will tell but show her how special she is to you and start a new relationship with her if you want to. If you don't then leave. Good luck! But I think it is important you both explore the reasons fully in counselling.

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  • moomus
    12 years ago

    What do u expect when u fucked about behind her back? I'd have kicked you to the kerb....

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  • Mimi69
    12 years ago

    You had an affair. You fucked up. How do you really expect her to react? You're lucky you even got to see her face again, let alone have the chance to touch her.

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