Is it normal for my step daughter to...
My partner has three children before we met two sons and a daughter. His daughter is 8 years old and used to come stay with us for a month during the summer and then on other holidays for a few weeks. While i was pregnant she told me i was lucky her dad was still with me n that she thinks i should leave and take my unborn baby with me. This really upset me and i told my partner about it but nothing was really done about it. On another occastion she told me her dad had lots of other girlfriends and shes surprised he hasnt left me yet then she says maybe its because he really loves you or maybe hell leave u tomorrow. I have now had my baby and she and her two brothers came up to visit. She was told by both me and her father not to touch the babies head ( because of the soft spot) and she continued to touch his head anyways. She would smile at me and touch his head and i would have to yell at hernot too and then she gives attitide saying why not i want to you touch his head. Also, the baby was crying one time and she laughed and said you just do this and grabbed a pillow to put over the babies head!!!! I was very upset about this. She has now moved here with us full time and im scared to have the baby around her at all and my partner doesnt understand. She even told me one day that she saw her dad punch me in the face ( this has never happend) so wen she said she saw this i laughed and said she was beinh silly no such thing ever happend and yet she refuses to believe me. The reason she is here full time is she says she ws sexually asulted while living with her mother but no charges were made cuz there is no evidence i sort of think this may be something she has made up like her father punching me in the face. She is however mow talking to councillors now that shes here im scared she will make up stories about me and her father that may result in my baby being taken away from me. She has been here 3 weeks and has already gotten in a fight at school and pulled a chair out from underneith a metally challenged student. Is any of this normal 8 year old behavior?