Is it normal for my sister to be this insecure?

Shes probably one of the most insecure females I know. Shes paranoid about her boyfriends talking/associating with other girls (yet she has multiple boyfriends). She downtalks other girls because they are more attractive than her, or blond. She criticizes me about everything (I'm pretty sure shes jealous of me).

Whenever we are at the gym, she always tries to compete with me..its annoying. I'm just trying to work out to better my health and get swoll, yet here she is getting all pissy because I have high endurance with heavy equipment and what not. I give her credit for being a better runner than me, but if for once I want to run faster..she assumes I'm trying to beat her and ups her speed up to mine. After leaving the gym, she talks about how every guy in the gym was looking at her and that their girlfriends were giving her the deathstare for it. I highly doubt that is true. Its like she has to get approval from guys, and other girls have to be jealous of her in order for her to feel good about herself. Is this normal? I feel its not because unlike her I'm highly confident or don't really care much about what people think of me.

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Based on 70 votes (30 yes)
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Comments ( 9 )
  • Avant-Garde

    No.

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  • Jasmina

    First of all WHI GIVES A FLYING FUCK IF SHES FUCKING JELOUS OF YOU ! You don't wake up everyday to fucking amaze her yeeno ? Ok ok tell her to fucking get over herself because she cans do horrible shit that not gonna be good DO IT BEFORE SHIT GONE DOWN

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  • niniozo

    This sounds very much like me and my brother, I don't really care that much about what people think, I don't wear makeup, wear revealing clothes or put hundreds of pictures of myself on facebook. my brother got the bad genes, and he is really insecure. He goes to the gym all the time, not because he wants to be healthy, but because he wants a six pack. He is always criticizing me and calling me ugly, and he tries WAY to hard to be cool. it's frustrating, and I HATE him, but I know he won't go anywhere in life with that kind of attitude, so it helps to know that I have more potential (not to be too vain), and that I'm more happy and secure with myself.

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  • likeaglove

    I wouldn't say that is insecure. Just totally full of herself and can't stand the idea of anyone being better than her.

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  • Legion

    there are quite a few people who are really insecure.

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  • ilovemyjew

    She is a weirdo

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  • Jesus Christ, people think this is normal? Probably because you all are just as crazy or worse than this. Un-fucking-believable

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    • InsertBlankHere

      Have you confronted her about it? Sounds like she needs someone to give her a reality-check.

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  • AngAnders112

    we all have insecurities, some of us manage them very well and some don't know how to

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