Is it normal for my penis to be much smaller than it should be ?

Why do people always talk about length of a penis. Width is more important than length. There seems to be no correlation between length and width. Short and thick is better (for pleasing your sex partner)than long and thin.

What determines how big a cock “should be”? If you have one that functions, be grateful!

most of us guys want bigger porn star sized dicks but i think theres more to pleasuring a woman like taking time on foreplay fingering eating her out basically spending at least an hour just getting her to orgasm or at least trying then moving on to bj and penetration but maybe that's just me personally i like giving a woman long foreplay before going further

It's really not that important and the bigger turn off is an insecure man who is all twisted up about their size, big or small. No one who is mentally healthy cares about the size of your dick.

Firstly, there's absolutely no point worrying about the size of your penis, since you can't change its size any more than you can change the colour or your eyes or make yourself taller. What you have is what you've got, and what you have is down to the luck of the genetic draw.

Second, although most guys' penises have reached their final size by the time they're eighteen, some guys continue to grow until they're in their twenties. If you're under 21, it's possible you might get bigger.

In any case, barring any serious physiological problems, all penises generally work pretty much the same as far as the guy they're attached to is concerned, and a huge dick is not top of the list of qualities that most women look for in a guy.