Is it normal for my other daughter 14 to date a 17 year old??

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My daughter has be seeing this guy and she is a freshman and he is a senior and they hangout all the time.. Well she has been getting in trouble ALOT with me! (Not drinking or drugs or anything) One day she fell asleep in his apt. and did not tell me where she was. She comes home and goes right to bed. I was so Angry! She is not pregnant, Has not done drugs, nothing! It is very odd.. Should I trust him with her?

Yes 35
No 21
Thats odd 14
She might be a hoe 36
Make her grounded 6
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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    They were probably banging all night and that's why she was so tired.

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  • Bigmac69
    12 years ago

    Take this from a guy like me. I would have a girl give me head in a theater. Or the restroom when I was 15 and girls are real easy to convince no matter who they are so trust me she did something with him I'm 99 percent sure of this. Maybe not sex but maybe she got fingerd or gave head trust me I know a 17 year old is not going to let her sleep over and that's it does it really make sense to you just listen to it

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    Well it depends on the guy but generally probably would not want her dating someone that old. She might have just been out not nescarally having sex but goofing off being stupid with her boyfriend.

    I do not understand why everyone on this page seem to think she is for sure fucking him. Not every single 17 year old is fucking. It really depends on the area though. How behaved do you think your daughter is?

    Some children will not be doing it but they will get in trouble over a boy. In fact she may have been at a party. Not all children are this stupid as to be fucking this young. Explain to her she can not be running off and disappearing and not coming home.

    That you need to know where she is at too keep her safe. That is it inappropriate. Also not saying you should report him to authorities but if he is 17 that means in a year he will be 18. So if he is smart he will not do anything sexual or else is technically breaking the law.

    It is a tad young though in my opinion. I knew seniors who did this. They never did anything with the fourteen years old. The 14 year olds they dated had no idea what sex was yet and I think they would have been appalled if asked to.

    If she is not doing drugs and not pregnant and overall seems like a good kid she is probobly not doing it. So no your kid does not sound like a whore. Also explain to him he can not be kidnapping your daughter. That you want her home.

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  • D.J
    11 years ago

    mam its the right time to give knowledge about side effect of sex,in this age which only a mother can,control ur angry be polite with her.

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  • Shaung1
    11 years ago

    It's normal, it's all part of growing up

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  • TAN
    11 years ago

    It is very hard to trust a 17 year old guy when it comes to girls. They are obviously doing sexual things, don't lie to yourself. He is 17, he wouldn't be with a 14 year old if they weren't hooking up. Use your brain here. We all know that she didn't "accidentally" fall asleep. Teach her better morals. Why would you ever allow your daughter to be with someone of that age?

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  • theabider
    12 years ago

    "My other daughter"? Other than which?

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  • Peptox
    12 years ago

    Have a long talk with both of them. If he is doing sexual things with her tell her he needs to back off. Say something like "You're going to be an adult soon so I expect you to act like an adult." Tell him how you feel and then listen to him and if he says "I never did anything sexual with her" Then either he's not which is good or if he is talk to her and him about and let them know that you don't approve, etc etc. There could be legal ramifications for him.

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  • Peptox
    12 years ago

    Yes it's normal but they shouldn't be doing anything sexual. Give them a chance.

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  • Its_Called_Love
    12 years ago

    Get her the hell away from him, my sister is 15 and if a 17 year old thought he could date her, he has another thing coming...

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