Is it normal for my mum to hate my boyfriend so much?

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It started off as my mother just didn't want to hear about it if I had been seeing my boyfriend which is fine, I just kept them seperate. But as time has gone on, she has gone to the extremes. I am 18 and she won't let me have a phone to contact him, or internet, I have to use college internet. She took my previous phone, and from it sends him death threats, calls him and tells him to kill himself, spam texts him saying "killer" and even phones his mother on loud speaker while saying horrible things about him to her friends. She won't let me talk to him, she says she's hired hit men to kill him and has detectives after us to stop us talking- she even called social services making lies up about his family to try and cause trouble. It's getting upsetting for everyone, and its not like a short childish relationship we've been together for years and we are actually engaged- I don't know what to do anymore. Is it normal?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Yep all moms hate their daughters boyfriends unless they are secretly fucking them.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    It seems your Mom needs professional help.
    I'd move out asap; that cannot be healthy place to live.
    If you are worried that she might actually be capable (does she have the money?) to have him harmed, then perhaps it's even time to involve the authorities.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    10 years ago

    Yes, it is normal for parents to hate their children's significant others. No, it is not normal for your Mom to act as severely as she does. I get the feeling that your Mom is mentally unstable and I would recommend you look into finding your own place to live because it is possible for her abuse of your personal time and space to get much worse.

    I would suggest that she see a fucking shrink. Does she even have a job? Your Mom needs a damned life.

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  • Cherryblossomm
    9 years ago

    my mom really likes my boyfriend she calls him 'son from another mum" which is embarrassing like chill we are teenagers he's not gonna be your son in law for quite a while yet! That seems like a bad sign though did he give her a reason to hate him? if so get away from him. If she hates him for no reason I find that really hard to believe.

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    • regisphilbin
      9 years ago

      maybe she hates all men in general, misandry or whatever they call it.

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  • Geneva5
    10 years ago

    I was smoking crack with ur mom today while she was giving him a wristy.

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  • Cristal
    10 years ago

    That behavior from your mom is not normal at all. I mean, is there a specific reason WHY SHE HATES HIM SO MUCH that you do not know about??
    If she carries on like that it will not be good for your relationship and her action towards him can get worse if you have children. What does your dad thinks about this?

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Telling a lie and how not to do it.

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