Is it normal for my moms boyfriend to kiss me like that?

I live with my mom and 3 older brothers. A year after my parents divorced, my mom introduced us to her new boyfriend ( who was way younger than her & was actually cute). When he came over, he gave all of us a handshake (nothing special ). All he would normally do when he came over was to greet us, watch a movie or something, then leave. Then things Started to get weird. A few months past and he started living with us ( I was pretty annoyed but that Is a whole different story) and well , we all got closer to the guy. Now he would give my bros a hug and give me a kiss on the cheek (not weird right?) but sometimes when nobody is looking, he gives me a kiss on my lips o.o (I get off guard when he does that) also when he goes some place, (and my family is not around) he would give me multiple kisses on my lips and also on my neck while hugging me and then he smiles. That gets me into a very curious position. He has been doing that for quiet a long time. (before that started, all he would do was kiss me on the cheek) P.S sometimes, when he kisses me, he looks around o: I am so confused. is that normal?
So what do y'all think?: )

Yes
- innocent kisses!

No
-something else is happening

Thanks: )
By the way I'm new here: )

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Comments ( 14 )
  • Avant-Garde

    HOW OLD ARE YOU? IT'S NOT FUCKING NORMAL AND IF YOU ARE A MINOR NOT ONLY IS IT INAPPROPRIATE BUT IT IS ALSO ILLEGAL! The fact that he has been so secretive about it shows that he knows that what he is doing is wrong. I urge you to tell someone. YOU ABSOLUTELY MUST BECAUSE AT THIS RATE IT WILL/CAN PROGRESS TO SOMETHING EVEN MORE SERIOUS AND INAPPROPRIATE LIKE HIM RAPING YOU! Tell someone you trust. If you feel like your mom or brothers are too wrapped up into this man's entity then tell some other trusted adult like a teacher or the cops.

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  • robbieforgotpw

    I take fart walks and it clears everyone out. Try gassing the guy when he gets close

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  • LOUi_CUDi

    Call your local authorities if you are underage . Tell someone such as your mother or father, an adult. If he tries to do it again find the strength to tell him to stop. Hurry before he tries to something more than kissing you.

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  • mcshorty18

    We are not the people you should be telling this to. You need to confide in a trusted adult before things get any worse. If he's secretly doing those things behind your mom's back, he will most likely try to eventually go farther. Not normal

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  • GuessWho

    It seemed like "Yes - innocent kisses" until I got to "(and my family is not around) he would give me multiple kisses on my lips", so: "No - something else is happening"
    He's dating your mom, but it seems like he wants you too.

    You could tell him that it makes you uncomfortable and see if he respects that boundary, but, from what I've read so far, it seems like he's a guy that both you and your mom would be better off without.

    If he's already scouting out his girlfriend's daughter, he is most likely open to cheating on her - even if you don't give him a chance, someone else will.

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  • Moonbow

    No, it's not normal! Your mom needs to find someone her own age and stop robbing the freaking cradle! Additionally, she should have her head examined for allowing a man to move into the house where there are children under age 18. Report the pervert to Child Protective Services -- or whatever it's called where you live -- and you'll be rid of him for good. And tell your mother to straighten up and act her age instead of her IQ!

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  • boy1

    TELL YOUR MOTHER .. NOOWWWWWW DO IT DO IT DO IT .. IAM SERIOUS TELL HER NOW ..

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  • Elmanta

    If i were you I would talk to my mom and my oldest brother but at the same time

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    • NguyenMai

      I agree with you. That's her step dad..right? If she won't stop this mess soon , what would that ''dad '' plan in his mind .?? Who knows ! Both she and her mom gonna be hurt

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  • bluelegs

    The same thing happened to me as a teenager. I started retaliating, couldn't tell anyone. Eventually mum and I got into so many arguments that I ended up leaving and being disowned. Don't do the mistake I did and talk to your mum or brothers about it. It's a family matter that needs to be resolved as a family.

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  • 69

    it's normal that he does that because he is attracted to you and as much as he doesn't act on it he DOES! and you let him. it's normal for a man/woman to be an asshole and have no morals, so yes, it's normal. doesn't mean it's right or decent. what a prick

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  • changes123

    Tell your mom... and make sure he gets the hell out of your house.

    In no way is this normal. He is taking advantage of your innocence. Protect yourself, don't feel bad, and tell someone. He deserves it. I would hate for this to progress. Save yourself the trouble in the future.

    Here's a poem:

    what i never
    learned
    from my mother
    was that
    just because someone desires you.
    does
    not mean they value you.
    desire is the kind of thing that
    eats you
    and
    leaves you starving.
    - the color of low self esteem, nayyirah waheed

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  • Kerry69

    Welcome :)

    For the time being,do your best not to be alone with him

    Tell your mum,hopefully she will act.
    ( You did not mention ur age,so i guess under 16)

    Good luck.

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  • mcshorty18

    I completely agree ^
    Please get some help for yourself

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