Is it normal for my mom to call me a 'whore, bitch, prostitute'?

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Is it normal for my mother to call me a bitch, whore, prostitute, etc...
Since my family is highly religious, they are pretty simple and so am I, but if i ever did things such as: wearing makeup, straightning my hair, have earbuds in my ears, wear nailpolish, etc.. My mom calls me a whore and all types of other things and gets extremely angry. Just today she pushed my arm out of the way and i sat down at the table to eat and I whispered to my brother 'shes crazy' and she attacked me and called me all types of bad names in front of my 8 yr old brother. He told her to stop saying that and she told him theres no other way to describe me. Im not sure what i did to get this, im not sure if its normal. Ive been dealing with it a while so i need to know what you guys think. A couple days ago she was angry and told my sister,brother, and dad that she hopes i died because then she wont have to deal woth me. Shes attacked me on numerous basis and left gashes on my face from attacking me which she covered with her own foundation before my school started so people wouldn't ask. Shes told my dad that she was going to kill me and he shouldn't be surprised if she does. Honestly i feel my mental state deteriorating and i pray that theyll give me up for adoption bevause anywhere has to be better then this...my own mom who carried me around for 9 months to tell me to die. Idk. Please tell me if this is normal. Thank you

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    It's not the religion, it's emotional and physical abuse.

    Are you the oldest of her daughters? I ask because your mom is probably jealous of you. Why jealous? Well, you're a teenager (or young adult?), that means you're younger, have many opportunities ahead of you that she never had, and your personality is probably the type she wish she had at your age. Think about it, what was she like at your age? She probably squandered her youth away somehow (early pregnancy, reckless behavior, etc).

    What you can do for now is stay strong. Understand that this isn't personal; you didn't do anything wrong. Your mom is crazy, and there's nothing anyone can do about it. If you're a teenager, work hard in school so you can get a scholarship to a university. If you need to stay out the house, join some after school activities. Also, talk to your school guidance conuselor. Don't let your mom make you so depressed that you shut down on life, because that's what she wants.

    Lastly, I understand how hard this is. We all want loving families, but that's like winning the Mega Millions lottery; the very sad facts are that rarely anyone is born into a healthy, stable family (including myself), so you're not alone. Just promise yourself that you'll be better than your mom, find a better man than your father, and treat any child you have with genuine love and care.

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    • littlefoxinabox
      7 years ago

      I'm the middle child. I'm also in my teens. My older sister who is religious doesn't get treated like this, I'm assuming that's because she claims to follow the religion though many people have told me she dislikes it and doesn't like following it. She even had a boyfriend, which she isn't allowed to have and when I told my parents they didn't care. If I did something like that, my mom would kill me herself. So I'm not sure if it's jealousy or not but it's clear she favors my older sister and younger brother more. Also when I was a kid I remember my grandparents talking bout how she never wanted another daughter. Aparently she wanted a son instead so maybe that has something to do with it. Not too long ago she opened up to me and told me were too similar which is her excuse for the abuse and my dad claims that he's a good person but I know he isn't. Thank you for your input, it means a lot to me that you took the time to give me some guidance.

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      • Tealights
        7 years ago

        No problem. :)

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  • charli.m
    7 years ago

    Why are so many deeply religious people really hateful, evil creatures?

    Your mother is a cunt. You'd do best to get out as soon as you can.

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    • littlefoxinabox
      7 years ago

      I don't think it's the religion. My religion teaches you to be humble and do what's right no matter what. They can claim to be religious all they like but I'm sure that's just for the publicity they get. I plan to join the marines right after highschool so I can support myself bc I know they won't give me money for schooling or a car, which is fine. I can do just fine without them. I'm also looking into a job if all of this stress allows it...

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    7 years ago

    If you go to school you can tell a guidance counselor or school psychologist. Growing up I remember parents being set straight after they called Child Protective Services on them. Though in some cases the abused children got taken away.

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