Is it normal for my husband to want to be my slave?

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3 days ago #1
A new (6 months) single work colleague, considerably younger than me (I'm 42 he's 27) has shown a great deal of interest in myself since he started working with me. Whilst I swear I have never encouraged him we do get on very well and share common interests ect, I do admit I may have been dressing a bit more smartly to draw his compliments. Recently even though he knew I was married he's been asking me out a lot and I found myself slowly weakening and being tempted . I decided to put an end to temptation by telling my husband of the situation.

Instead of the reaction I was expecting he implied that as he knew about it, it would be OK. I was shocked and thought it would just die a natural death but my husband wouldn't let the subject drop. He would keep on about it and would bring it up on the infrequent occasions we made love. It started to dominate conversations we had almost on a daily basis.I eventually decided to have it out with him and asked him after we made love why he kept on about it. His answer nearly gave me a heart attack.

He said it has been his fantasy since before we were married (23yrs ago) for me to take a lover and to deny him sex perm. he said it was a wide spread thing on the internet and would thrive on the humiliation aspect if I went through with it. Saying he would like it now and again if I teased him about his sexual inadequacies and ordered him about to do housework and stuff even saying he'd love it if I made him my maid! His sexual prowess has never been great and I have to admit I am tempted if only for sexual release as he has had sexual issues due to medical issues for a few years, but I don't think I have it in me to be the type of woman he'd like me to be in that situation I am just don't have a dominant persona. I confided in a girlfriend at work about the situation and her attitude was "go girl!"

Has anyone else ever been through anything similar?
if so what is your situation now regarding your relationship with your husband?

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    Your younger coworker is the manly man. Don't push it. Tie your wussy husband's wrists to the headboard to make him behave during oral sex. Tell that cute younger guy that you are happily married and not available. (Teasing him with smart clothes is fine as long as it raises the work morale.)

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  • KingTermite
    8 years ago

    Normal enough. I think it's more fun to bring in a live-in slave for myself and whoever my current paramour is. We have a very hot 21 year old college student that wanted to explore her bi side while still getting plenty of dick. It's worked out wonderfully for all of us.

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    • Itsnotnormal1
      8 years ago

      You are a fucking idiot.

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  • HATIMTAI
    9 years ago

    It is normal. I too living with an extremely dominant woman who treat me like a slave.

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  • HATIMTAI
    9 years ago

    I am a guy who is having a live-in cum slave-mistress relationship with an woman who is at least 10 years older to me, she is 35 years old. She is an extremely dominant woman.

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    9 years ago

    Normal for weak girly men. Not manly men like me.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Normal, but I have yet to Be in your situation.

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