Is it normal for my husband to masturbate to random blog pictures?

My husband and I have been married for less than a year. We hardly see each other because hes in the military and hes always doing trainning. Due to the distance I usually send him dirty pics from me. J just two weeks ago I went to go visit him and discovered files saved in his computer and phone which had random pictures of girls. to make things worst, None of the folders had my naughty pictures saved. I confronted him and they turned out to be pictures from a blog. I have never been against him watching actual porn, but this really hurt me. Idk what to think of it...

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  • honeybeee

    Hey I know how this feels :( he is a jerk wen I found out my bf was looking at other girls facebooks and myspaces looking at their pics I was so sad it hurts so much :( u should punch him

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  • TheTruth77

    It is normal. And while it's difficult to understand, it doesn't mean he doesn't absolutely love you. It's just difficult to fantasize about your wife when you're married. The kink factor is gone when it comes to masturbating to a girl, when you're married to her. I'm guilty of doing this too. But when I'm with my girl, she's all I think about. There's just something stimulating about fantasizing about other women. It's what you can't have, so you fantasize about it.

    Maybe I'm must a complete jerk too. But I love my girl. It's just a turn on to look at others when I'm not around her.

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  • Carl

    Maybe he didn't save your pictures because he didn't want any other guys looking at photos of his wife. When I was in the military, my wife sent me pics of her in a bikini. Because of all the crude remarks I knew that some guys would make, the last thing I would do was show them her pictures. I ended up destroying them instead of someone finding them by mistake, or on purpose and passing them around. As far as photos of other women, that's the most normal thing in the world. What do you think skin magazines have been for all these years? They're so guys can jack off to them, plain and simple. It's now the same with online porn. Since it's normal for ALL men to masturbate -- especially while away from a wife (and apparently not screwing around on her) what difference does it make that he uses online strangers as aids to get off? Give him a break, it's just his way of being loyal to you.

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  • 8Serene8

    He prolly figures since he is so far away from you that what you don't know won't hurt you. Whether that be actual women or women online. Still cheating. Divorce his ass and move on.

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