Is it normal for my girlfriend to start being awkward with me?

Me and my girlfriend are only 18 and are still in collage we have been going out for about 3 months, it is a distant relationship but were going to see each other on the 7th of January which is 15 days away. At the start for two months we were all over each other skyping daily, always excited to talk and have a laugh, she use to text me all the time while, she use to want to phone me all the time and we were like love birds, but recently last week the 12TH of December when this guy came along, ever since that guy's came along I don't get any texts, I don't get any calls and when we chat on kik she's really sour and doesn't seam like she wants to talk to me half the time, and this guy likes her and she's admitted to liking him to but she said she likes me more,
I'm just worried losing her, and all I think about is her every day, this guy has only been there for 2 weeks and she likes him and it took me 4 years, this guys quite popular and has took a interest into her and is trying to pull moves on her, and thank the lord she dose reject him but im not sure what to do, she seams troubled about something and i cant get her to tell me, I have only asked twice but something's bothering her, she barely wants to talk on text now a days.

please i am lost and need help

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  • RoseIsabella

    I dunno, maybe she already cheated, and is already feeling guilty about it? Then again, maybe not, but you never know.

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    • DannyKanes

      My thoughts exactly.

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  • Tealights

    She:
    ... admitted to liking another guy.
    ... is gradually reducing communication with you.
    ... seems upset and refuse to tell you why.

    Yeah, a break up is coming soon. It's not your fault, and you didn't do anything wrong. Along with that, the other guy isn't better than you. Your girlfriend is just naive and getting toyed with by a player, that's all. Even if this wasn't a long distance relationship, there's nothing you can do.

    I know it may not seem like it, especially after all the years you spent pining after her, but this is a blessing in disguise, because if she's easily manipulated, then it's better it happen now than years down the road when you're married or have a child with her. Also, you're very young, and you seem to have a good heart, if you date wisely you'll definitely find another woman worth your time and effort.

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  • 53739

    She just doesn't sound interested anymore.

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  • LittleGirlBeatenAndSodomized

    She's probably banging some other dude, only read 5% ot your op

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  • SuMaFTW

    It's over. You're 18, so you're at the beginning of your college experience, which means you have 2 or 3 years to go. She already figured out that by staying committed to a long distance relationship she isn't going to have any fun. There's a guy giving her attention, and you keep bugging her over texting and Skype, cimg across as needy and distrustful. It's pretty much over.

    So you have three options:
    (1) Move back with her and do online college or go to college close to her if she still wants to be committed to the relationship.
    (2) Have a long distance relationship but accept you two will see or date other people. Fair is fair. But don't bring not up now; bring it up after you have seen her and are back to college.
    (3) Move on.

    Now, you have to realize you can't be doing the same crap you've been doing. So here's what you have to do:

    Without being drastic or calling attention to it, text her less and Skype less. Less time, less frequently.

    Stop talking about the other guy and asking her about him... you're coming across as insecure when you need balls of steel.

    When you see her, just have a great time. Focus on her having fun instead of talking about the relationship.

    For now, find a female friend and potential replacement near you. It'll give you some emotional stability.

    Realize she maybbreak up with you on January when you see her, so think about how you will handle that. It may be at the beginning or toward the end.

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  • DannyKanes

    You're worried about losing her? Mate, I'm really sorry to say but you've already lost her.

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  • CDmale4fem

    Im shocked, you say your in college, but yet so many spelling errors.

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  • charli.m's_Constant_Period

    She is too passive aggressive to tell you she is dumping you. Find another sex partner.

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  • NathanScot

    Mate,this little birdy already cheated on you and something tells me deep down you know that.You were just hoping we'd give you hope that she hasn't.Just grow some fucking balls and ask her what the fuck is going on,let her come clean and allow her to go wirh a clear conscience.After all,things like love can never be forced and no one rules their heart...only their actions.Cheers noogie.

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  • BlackyHancock

    Based on how you describe her behaviour it sounds like she's cheated already or is thinking about cheating on you. Long distance relationships almost never work.

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