Is it normal for my girlfriend to prefer sleeping with her girlfriend

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Is it normal for my girlfriend to prefer to spend the night or sleep in the same bed as her girlfriend over me? Her friend whom I met once via the internet came over tonight. She's a out of town friend maybe a college friend. Me and my girlfriend have been together now for about 2years now if not more. Honestly we don't get too much time to be romantic. We both work long hours and she tends to bring her work home with her. We don't get to spend a lot of quality time together. To be frank we have sex like once every 3 1/2 months. Twice if I'm lucky. I admit I am jelious. My feelings are hurt because she would rather spend the night with her in my girlfriends bed then me her boyfriend. Okay again this is them in a bedroom and me out in the living room on a futon. I was like no in my head I'm going to my parents house which is like 10mins away. Prior to her coming over the girlfriends friend. My girlfriend let me know like a day or two in advance. I think she even mentioned sleeping arrangements over a text message. We joked but I didn't know she was tottaly serious. When I was packing my stuff up and finished up ironing clothes for work which is 7hours away from now she walked me outside and said you don't have to go liz said she would stay on the futon. In my mind I didn't want to spoil her night but I was still uncomfortable with the whole idea in general and earlier liz was laying down on the futon with her head on my girls leg. I didn't like it. Is this normal behavior or bullshit? She is 28 and I am 25. Not that matters. Please all comments are welcome. Need advice.

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  • TalkAndTouch
    13 years ago

    Hmm.... Cant you see the WRITING ON THE WALL?
    They LIKE each other. (ie. your gf is bi )

    Want some proof? Get them tipsy and let them go to bed as usual. Hide a taperecorder in their room. The noises should be a give away ;-)

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  • lisalyn
    13 years ago

    Get a new girlfriend plain simple and to the point

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  • deepthought33
    13 years ago

    I would tend to think she and her friend have (or had) a sexual relationship. I had friends I was close with like that but my boyfriends were always close by too. Either she is getting herself sexually satisfied in other ways and needs you less or she just isn't interested in sex with you.
    Funny thing is, even as a girl, my mind goes JUST into the gutter enough to encourage you to try to get involved if the two of them have THAT kind of relationship :P

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Find someonw better. She is obviously not that into u. Not that attracted to u. And quite frankly she migjt be a lesbian. U r too young to only getting laid once evry 3
    1/2 months

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  • jermath35
    13 years ago

    Stay there man... Let them sleep in the same bed... That's my dream live with two girls but spy on them...

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  • Luvz2fuk
    13 years ago

    yeah its normal..... it just means you have a small cock

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  • Ihave2try
    13 years ago

    I've never had girlfriends that are that close to me to lay on my legs, it's not normal for me but I have seen other females do that, I would say overall it's normal.

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  • Sweetz
    13 years ago

    They might as well date eachother. Who knows if they already are 0.0

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  • Racoon
    13 years ago

    She's cheating on you with her. Get away for someone better

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  • Scrat
    13 years ago

    Not normal talk to her or leave her

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  • DES
    13 years ago

    I've never done that but I know I like dick I'm not bi anything maybe you should ask theyigjt let you join

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  • Happyhippos88
    13 years ago

    I'm a girl and that's just weird

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Girls are always affectionate with each other. If she doesn't get to see her friend that often, then she probably misses her. Girls sleep in the same bed all the time, and my friends and I lay our heads on one another's legs like it's nothing. It's not a big deal at all. I can see why you're jealous, but from a girl's point of view, it's completely normal for us to do that.

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