Is it normal for my girlfriend to just end our relationship kind of?

Don't try to talk to her. Cut off all contact for a few weeks. Trust me if she's interested in you or worth being in your life. She'll come around. It'll be up to you whether you want to keep her or cut her loose.

I was pretty much in the same relationship as you are only it was for 9 months and she just wanted a break. I found out tho that she liked another guy and tried to blame it on me but a month down the road she was dating another guy. I think if she walks away that easy with no solid reason she doesnt love you. Im sorry to say but thats just how some girls are. Its better to move one cause if it was meant to be it will work out in the future.

Hmmm... Well, first of all, thank god you are ok from the accident. Secondly, it seems like your ex may have something to hide. From experience when someone is guilty they tend to be quite irrational about things and when you slightly even question something quite small they throw a tantrum. So.... She might have some skeletons in her closet....... Be aware and keep your eyes open... I think she may feel guilty about what she has done... Hence her reactions of leaving AND wanting to clear her head. I mean you two have never had any argument of anything so... What exactly does she need to clear her head about unless the guilty conscious has kicked in? :s

By "talk it through" with her, do you mean that you only want her to tell you things that you want to hear, or do you actually want to hear the truth? It sounds to me like you are not at all interested in the truth, you are only interested in convincing her that she is wrong.

Advice: she is right about her own feelings and you not accepting that IS controlling.

If this girl loves you, she should be able to talk to you about what is wrong with her instead of just ending the relationship you were in without a reason. The way she did things is too shady and you should ask her why she is hurt/flipped out on you and if she can't give you a legitament answer, then I think that your answer is to just move on, she seems to be pulling your strings like a puppet and it can be better in the long run to let her go. You might be happier and find someone you care for much more that is honest with you and cares about you just as much as you do her.

UPDATE!!!

So we talked finally! I also have had this time to think about what has gone wrong. I realized that for the past 4 months I never actually gave her a committment of being her boyfirend per say. We basically had sex and that was it. I realize that for 4 months I never held her hand, kissed her, invited her to visit friends or family and she still stuck it out with me for 4 months. I now realize that she gave up from not getting the attention she deserved. I feel so much regret and wish there were something I could do to make this better. She wants to be friends but says that it will never be the same as it was. What can I do? What should I do? I had so much going on during these past few months that I couldnt even think about all of this but now I have taken time away from work and want to resolve this some how. She admits that she is hurting from all of this and still says this has nothing to do with another man. I believe that. She is an honest girl and quite honestly the most wonderful person I have ever met. She wants friendship which I am fine with. I feel myself wanting to call her and text her alot lately and she admits that she cannot hang out or talk with me everyday right now. What should I do? Thanks.

I think she is cheating on you dude and she is hiding it but feels sorry because she knows she broke your heart.

she is witj someone else or she wants to be