Is it normal for my girlfriend to hide things?

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I see her looking at other dudes when we go to the store sometimes.I know it's human nature, but she denies that she does it. She stays late at school some days and schedules her classes where she has a 2 hour break, but doesn't come home to see me.I just feel like she always wants to get away,like she never wants to be around me anymore. She has a bunch of guys i don't know on her facebook and I feel like she deletes things that she doesn't want me to see. She just seems so distanced from me sometimes even though we live together (2 years). Lately she just seems more concerned with other things that don't include me and she won't always show me what she is doing on the computer, mainly on this site. I thought being in a relationship meant that you should never hide anything from each other, so I don't know what to think because I don't hide anything I do from her.I tell her everything. I tell her all this, but she acts like it's no big deal and won't change anything. It drives me crazy not knowing what she does, not knowing if she's cheating or talking to someone else.

We've been on and off for a few years before she moved in. She's been with a lot of guys on our breaks and never seemed to take long to find someone else.I've only been with a couple other people on our breaks and it was never serious with anyone else.She wants me to trust her, but I just feel like I'm going to lose her.

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    Ooh, is there going to be a twist ending where it turns out that your girlfriend is Allistalla?

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  • fullhouse
    11 years ago

    She deletes stuff and you need more proof?
    She obviously expects different things and if you love her let her do what she wants.STOP SNOOPING AROUND!

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  • Nomster!
    11 years ago

    :l read the story kiwi, he said he tried but she doesent listen. If I were you story teller, I would say to her that your not happy. If things don't change that you will be forced to do what has to be done, even if it means breaking up. You don't like this so don't be caught in it for long, you need to figure out what you want and if she can't give it too you, move on.

    I know that what I'm saying is easier said then done but is it not better done then dealt? Don't deal with what you don't like, fix it. Do what can be done to change it. If your still not happy find someone who you can be happy with.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      We both love each other very much. We have been together since middle school. We have a child together. Maybe we have too much of a past because i just can't seem to trust her, even though i think i know deep down she isn't doing anything wrong. I actually feel like she isn't happy with me, like maybe she's just staying with me for the kid, or because she has nowhere else to go really.

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  • Kiwi93
    11 years ago

    Dude, seriously. This might not be the right way of dealing with ur relationship problems. Talk to ur girl obviously there is something wrong.

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