Is it normal for my girlfriend to get mad at me

I have been dating my Ex-fiance for about 1 year and when we moved in together she started getting upset that I had friends on my facebook that were girls and guys. Mostly the girls because I dated a few of them. One day she my stylist who was also my best friend for from 21-25 found me and started texting and emailing. Now I tolod my fiance about her and told her we slept together one time after four years and realized it was a mistake. Well we have been catching up and always hung out but my fiance GETS MAD IF I call her text her play online p[oker with her, you name it. She asked me to stop being friends with her and I told her why. I am not romantically involved and at the time we were engaged to get married. Now it is on hold. Also this is not the first time she has said this or accused me of sleeping around when I spend 24/7 at work or with her. Some have even lived in other states. Isn't it normal to have friends of all gender? I have my whole life.

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Based on 37 votes (25 yes)
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Comments ( 18 )
  • pem24

    I really got confused with the casting of your story. Who's the ex and your girl now? Have you ever wondered that those who made comments here were also misled by this particular subject?

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  • nelfdrood

    You should go find a different girl to date who isn't so posessive and commanding.

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    • loanmman

      That is the right answer but I am crazy for this one. Only keep who cant keep up with me. Hint Hint

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      • loanmman

        That is the right answer but I am crazy for this one. The only one who keep up with me. Hint Hint sorry corrected

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  • How come you're always in the chat but you never say anything?

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    • loanmman

      BTW the exfiance is the girl I am with now for two years. The one I am talking about. The engagement is off now because of this. I never go back to ex's. Rule number one!!!The guys and girls I am talking about are friends for over 20 years. My ex is the mother of my children and we will always just be friends. Thats not the one she is worried about so much.

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    • loanmman

      oh I didnt even know I was still on. Say happy birthday its my 45th

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    she's snooping your facebook and grilling you over it

    you have to ask yourself just what you're getting out of this relationship if she's going to decide ahead of time that talking to someone online is the same thing as cheating on her

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    • happycamper

      well duhhh. your male when we girls were little putting gross bugs on us was funny. we are always mad at you and your cottys. just like tapons andgossip drive men crazy. besides it would be no funn if every body was all goshy all time. that what spic is about.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

        my male what?

        what the hell are you talking about?

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    • loanmman

      Thats exactly what she says! Weirdest thing I have ever seen. And she is an ex swinger too. I of course am vanilla straight and one woman only man.

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  • aussiewolf

    dude, why are you banging your ex? sounds like you have a problem with letting your old flames go. try breaking off any friendship with all of them and start fresh with a new girl.

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    • loanmman

      You need to reread it

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    • loanmman

      No the exfiance is the girl I am with now for two years. The one I am talking about. The engagement is off now because of this. I never go back to ex's. Rule number one!!!

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  • lovebuzz1025

    If she is uncomfortable with it and you love her, you would realize your fiance is more important than your ex and stop hanging out with her.

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    • loanmman

      No the exfiance is the girl I am with now for two years. The one I am talking about. The engagement is off now because of this. I never go back to ex's. Rule number one!!!The guys and girls I am talking about are friends for over 20 years. My ex is the mother of my children and we will always just be friends. Thats not the one she is worried about so much.

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  • tigerlilja

    I'd cut off communication with the ex because your fiance should be more important. If she feels suspicious about you talking to her, then you should reassure your fiance and not be secretive about what you're telling each other.

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    • loanmman

      No the exfiance is the girl I am with now for two years. The one I am talking about. The engagement is off now because of this. I never go back to ex's. Rule number one!!!The guys and girls I am talking about are friends for over 20 years. My ex is the mother of my children and we will always just be friends. Thats not the one she is worried about so much.

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