Is it normal for my girlfriend to be dropping these sex hints?

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My girlfriend and I have been dating for seven months now and lately, she's been dropping these sexual hints like touching my chest, letting me hug her from behind, letting me feel her up on her back, and just other sexual things in general. We've talked about losing our virginity together before, but she said then (a month ago), that she wasn't ready, but since then, she's started dropping these hints. Is it normal for her to do this and not want to have sex or has she changed her mind?

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  • SuperBenzid
    10 years ago | pl

    Buy yourself a sword and when she touches your chest, wave it around wildly and say: "I will protect my virginity you saucy harlot". It's the only way to be safe.

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    • RelapseRaid
      10 years ago

      Ahaha, this made my fucking day XD

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago | pl

    A lot of young women like to test their sexual power over guys, but it doesn't necessarily mean they are ready for sex. You'll have to test the waters, gently, and see what kind of response you get.

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  • keef
    10 years ago

    Wow. I'm assuming you two are pretty young. It's very very normal to physically touch your significant other. And none of the above is very sexual at all... When she starts putting her mouth on your dick and putting your hands down her pants but doesn't wanna fuck, come back to us lol

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    • yesnomaybeso
      10 years ago

      ahahah

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  • randomthoughts
    10 years ago

    How is hugging from behind sexual? O.o Just saying. Well she maybe just flirting you know, doesn't mean that she is ready for sex unless she has verbally said it. That's my opinion any how.

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    • BurnaBaby27
      10 years ago

      How is any of that stuff sexual o.O ?

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      • RelapseRaid
        10 years ago

        I kind of dulled down a lot of the stuff and didn't go into full explaining, but before, when I was 18 and she was 17, we didn't do this kind of stuff or anywhere near it, but now that we're both 18, it happens a lot.

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        • BurnaBaby27
          10 years ago

          Well, if you're both ready and you both want to do it, I'd say go for it! "YOLO"

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  • Riddler
    10 years ago

    How exactly is this a hint of "I want to have sex"? I think you are delusional and want to believe she is ready for sex. I find it sad that anyone is this stupid. You getting a bone in your trousers is not a sign that she is ready.

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  • macaroniheyo
    10 years ago

    how is this hinting towards sex?

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  • mixwell
    10 years ago

    7 months and she touches your chest and you hug from behind ??? Unless you're 13 not normal. She should have at least jerked u off

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    • RelapseRaid
      10 years ago

      She's always been really shy :P we didn't even kiss until our third date

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    No means yes.

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  • suky
    10 years ago

    This is another world. There are virgins still? When I was 14/15 there were only two female virgins in our class. Both Sikhs, it's different for them.

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  • laxman209
    10 years ago

    Have a shower with her. Shove a dildo in her ass.

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  • JBN
    10 years ago

    Act not interested. Women hate that.

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    At the very least, she should see your dick and hopefully with encouragement jack you off if she doesn't seem ready.

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    Don't wear any underwear and let her feel your hard on as you are French kissing her. She may help you take off your pants and you can help her off with her underwear. She sounds ready.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You should ask her, straight up, if she wants to have sex.

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  • White___October
    10 years ago

    I think a month ago she wasn't ready yet, but the conversation you had back then did start her thinking. Now she's trying to become ready for it, wich shouldn't take too long. You just make sure you encourage her in that process.

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  • junkboy
    10 years ago

    Sex is an emotional act, not a rational one.

    As a guy it is your job to make her feel comfortable enough in your presence, enough that you are able to escalate to sex.

    Shes not going to come out and say it straight to you (I'm ready), that would be a climax killer, and she expects you to read the signs as man.

    She wants to feel her first time was natural and spontaneous, not contrived. Plus by planning your first time you both put a lot more pressure on yourselves.

    Basically all I'm saying is if you feel the time is right, which you should know as you've been with her for this long, then make it happen.

    Don't make it this massive thing. Set the scene, time, location and make it happen as if it was never planned.

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  • robbieforgotpw
    10 years ago

    Powerdump

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