Is it normal for my girlfriend to be doing this

She cheated and youre still with her?!?! How sad. Leave man, once a cheater always a cheater

If u don't trust her, you shouldn't be with her. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship!

LOL. DUMP HER.

7 months and she already cheated? It's never ok of course but common 7 months? That's a bit fast isn't it

drop that shit. once a cheater always a cheater. (and I quote) you probably can do better anyway I hate little sluts like that who think all guys dig them. it's pathetic. and WOW university??? omg that's so amazing.

your girlfriends a slut but you probably cant do any better so keep on trying to control every aspect of her life. failing that, if you really do "love her to death", she'll be yours forever

i'm very sorry to say, that this sounds very like the situation i've been in before. except mine was after 2.5 years. i had gotten bored, met someone a little older and more "interesting", was just friends at first, but got more into him. talked to him a lot, outside of seeing him. my boyfriend noticed what was happening as it happened [though i NEVER would have cheated on him], and soon after, we broke up. dated the other guy not quite six months. realized he wasn't right for me, we broke up [well, i broke up with him], and after a while i ended up getting back with my boyfriend. we've been back together for five years now, and he still stands by his original thoughts, that he had to let me go and do my thing, i had to get it out of my system, or else i would have come to resent him [these are his thoughts, not anything i have said. i agree, after he pointed it out, but it's not something i brought up]. he loves me and i love him very much; we'd do anything for eachother. it worked out for me. i'm sorry to say, that i don't know what will happen for you. like someone pointed out above, seven months is not an incredibly long time.. i'd say you should try talking to her about it, though i'm sure she'll say they're just friends.. but if you really feel that it's more than that, then there's nothing you can change about it.. and if she's cheated on you before, you're probably right with your feeling.. but you have to do what feels best for you. just make sure you know it's right first.. you've been together seven months.. in my opinion, that's not enough time to know if it's love or infatuation.. it's not enough time to actually be love. if you two are really right for eachother, and really want to be together, it will work itself out. if you're not quite compatible, then you're not compatible. don't stay with her just because you don't want to be alone. because someone else will come along, someone better who really really loves you, who would do anything for you and absolutely adores you for you, just the way you are, and then it'll be right. but you won't get that chance if you're stuck in a relationship that isn't right for you

You're going to end up getting yourself hurt in the end if you stay with her, she obviously has had a past of cheating and what the first person said, once a cheater always a cheater. Even if you do end up staying with her you'll always have to wonder what she's doing behind your back. She needs to make you the most important part of her life and quit trying to get attention from other guys, if she's going to be in a relationship with you. There are plenty of other girls out there who will give you their utmost attention, don't just settle with that kind of crap, tell her she needs to decide what she wants and if she leaves you then all the best, it'll tell you how she really felt about you.

Same problem:/

You've only been together for 7 months!! Find someone u can trust instead of always wondering if she's texting someone!

I can relate to you reading this. The jealousy side of things and the insecurities you have and the lack of trust. In my opinion and it's only mine if someone is happy within a relationship why feel the need to flirt with others. If it's attention their after then should they not be coming to you for it. I would never do anything to jeopardise my relationship and I certainly would not do anything that my partner was upset with me doing and that should work both ways.

She's been craving attention from other men. That doesn't sound like a girl who wants to be in a relationship to me.

I dont think trying to prevent her from talking or texting other guys will take her urge away. Maybe it would even help vent off some steam. Now she can't speak to any guy but you, one day she might feel overwhelmed

Sounds like she craves attention...run, fast.

I agree with art1 that's nasty how can you be with her?!?!

Don't assume things! Just talk to her!

Firstly is great that's you guys have stuck to ur relationship! BUT being too clingy and nervous about who ur girlfriend is talking to may cause her to feel that you have no faith in her so be careful about that and let her know you trust her and if you don't then you have things you need to sort our with her! Communication Isvery important so