Is it normal for my girlfriend to always be busy

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About 1 or 2 months ago she would be more than happy to hang out with me but these days she doesn't make that much time for me. And even when we did hang out it wasn't for long it would be a couple hours maybe and she would have to go do something like study, go to hockey, or gym. I don't know if I trust that shes telling the truth to me, today she said she didn't wanna hang out because she was tired and wanted to sleep, but shes responding to all my messages I send her and being active on social media. I don't know what think, I would greatly appreciate feedback please & thank you. And also thank you for reading my post I appreciate it :)

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  • kelili
    5 years ago

    Maybe she just needs some space.

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  • Columbusbiguy
    5 years ago

    Quit smothering her. If you dont feel you are getting what you need out of the relationship then you have a decision to make. Perhaps you are more suited to be with someone needy or dependent on others. And thats ok.

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  • Boojum
    5 years ago

    Nobody here can really have much idea about what's going on in her head and why, but it does sound like she's limiting your contact, if not completing shutting you out (so far). I'm sure you already know that this really isn't a positive sign.

    You can't make her spend time with you and you sure as hell can't force her to enjoy your company when you are together.

    So why not just say to her, "I've got the feeling that you're really just not that into me these days. Is that right?"

    You probably don't want to ask that question because, deep down, you're afraid you already know what the answer is. But trust me: it's better if you get things out in the open rather than just letting it fizzle out while you wonder what the hell is going on, hope it's not anything bad, and try to figure out what you can do to make it better.

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    • aidonger
      5 years ago

      I will most certainly ask her that, thank you so very much for the amazing advice I deeply appreciate it, thank you.

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  • BlindSpot
    5 years ago

    It's just been 1 or 2 months. Could be that she just has a busy life and prefers to rest indoors these days. You should try to plan specific "outing" days together, rather than springing it on each other at the spur of the moment and expecting the other person to be ready.

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    • aidonger
      5 years ago

      I think I give enough lead way for it not to be considered spur of the moment but I'm not really that sure. thank you for commenting

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