Is it normal for my girlfriend not to care?

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Is it normal for my girlfriend not to care.
We've argued the past two weekends, and we don't argue at all. I compromise easily. Say things are my fault and soak it up, when I don't think something is my fault just to save having an argument. And just get on.
We argued today and it got to the point where she said if you don't like it, go. I think, if she means that, she can't really care a lot about our relationship? I'd like to think she does. She's a very strong woman, I do everything for myself kinda woman. Whoever is about is about.

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  • Annie25
    5 years ago

    Man if shes so strong she doesn't need you.
    Tbh wrong choice, you taking the blame for everything just for the sake of calming everything down.
    Look what you've done.

    Talk it out or leave.
    Self respect first no matter what

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  • Vildras
    5 years ago

    While it is worth it to remain open and listen when you do something wrong, she is definitely crossing a line there.

    She is effectively telling you that she has no interest in your opinions, self worth or the relationship unless you do it on her terms. A relationship simply won't survive that. Whether it is now, next month or a decade and a divorce from now, it will come crashing down.

    You need to seriously develop an exit strategy here. Talk it out before you do it, but have a plan ready before you do, as if she is already acting this way talking it out is not likely to work.

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  • angryblonde
    5 years ago

    relatable. except in my case it’s my boyfriend

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  • CrHazardous
    5 years ago

    But it's hard ain't it, starting over, loosing money on moving house and shit again. We've been good for just over 2 years. Seems a waste of time.

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