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Is it normal that my girlfriend and I dry hump every time we are together but no matter how intense it gets she never let's me touch her breast and she's always taking her shirt off around me so I don't understand if she's insecure about them but if she was then she wouldn't feel comfortable changing around me?!?
Maybe you should ask her instead of us?
If you haven't had sex yet, it could be she isn't comfortable getting that sexual with you, and finds direct boob touching to be one step too close to sex.
Or it could be that she's insecure about her boobs being touched.
Or it could be that she doesn't enjoy the sensation of her boobs being touched (some people have areas of their body that they can't stand being touched for unknown reasons - they just hate the feeling).
But as I say, she's the best person to ask. She knows the answer after all. We can only speculate.
Could be various reasons. I know for a fact that my breasts are very sensitive, but in a bad way, I don't even like to touch them because they hurt when I do. It's because of all the caffine I drink, which is causing them to be sore.
But, then again, it could because she's not ready, or something like that. Why not ask her?
I'm going to go with a for sure on this one. They are obviously young, and most likely insecure. So it can definitely be inferred that this young girl has small young girl boobs and doesn't want it to get out that she stuffs her bra.
She doesn't stuff her bra. I've felt them before but she told me that she doesn't like it
I used to be the same!! Trust me, there is no insecurity crap or low self esteem or anything like that. I always had really nice breasts and I had no problem with them at all nor my boyfriends. BUT I hated hated hated the sensation of someone touching them. Hard to explain, it just wasn't a pleasant feeling physically.I also hated how guys always tried to play with my bellybutton or stick their finger in it. Now that used to piss me off ha ha. I'm 31 now and married and I think I sort of got used to the breast touching in time, and it doesn't bother me that much but don't listen to anyone saying she is insecure.
That's odd. When i was younger my gf and I strictly dry humped/ heavy petted, and she could almost only get off if I was stimulating her breasts. Maybe you are doing it wrong (which i'm sure you are) or she is just young and immature, or some girls simply don't like it.
*edit* Just thought of something. You say she doesn't like it, what exactly do you mean? It just doesn't turn her on anything, or she doesn't like her boobs to be touched? Also, are you touching over or under bra? Because no girl likes any over the bra boob touching, you gotta get under that sucker.
compliment her hot titties. tell her they're so hot and juicy and just looking at them gives you insta-wood and if you she let you touch them you would be forever grateful
She's wearing pads and she is afraid you won't accept her small breasts. Unzip your pants and slide her hand down to your balls. That will help her feel less self-conscious. Gently rub her ass, kiss and breathe into her ear. Expressively dry hump her. After a few sessions, put hand lotion in her hand to stroke your cock. Be loving. After you squirt sperm on her, she'll start getting more comfortable with boys. At this point you can say, "I think your nipples need to be sucked."
Thanks for reminding me how lonely I am :P have you asked her at all?? She could be uncomfortable with that level of intimacy or something.
Surprise her with a new awesome bra and say you'll put in on for her in the mirror. If she refuses, begin the questioning. Otherwise, slightly touch them and read her response. Something needs to be lifted.
Maybe she is wearing a really padded push up bra. When I was first dating my boyfriend I felt embarassed about him touching my boobs with a shirt on because I wear push ups. Some are super padded and all you feel is padding when groped.
Honestly, i don't have experience in these kinds of things BUT i sure as damn hell know that it AIN'T normal
Really, move on, simply because she won't let the OP touch her boobs? That seems a bit haste don't you think? Some people don't like to go there that quickly, not everyone is on the same level sexually.
She's teasing the crap out of the poor guy and I'd bet dollars to donuts she treats him like shit. At least that's my impression. Of course, they could be about 12, so it would be more normal for little kids to be experimenting.
The fact that she lets him dry hump her tells me that she doesn't treat him like crap. It really could just be that she's not too comfortable having someone touch her boobs. I mean I wouldn't really call that teasing if she lets him do all these other things.
Why would you think that she treats him like crap anyways? Is it really just because she wouldn't let him touch her boobs?
She's not my girlfriend because she won't let me touch her boobs? Wtf HAHAHAHA I was just wondering if it's normal for girls to do that. I'm not a fucking douche
Ok then; I don't believe it's normal.
You can't make her preggers by touching her boobs, nor can you get STD's, so I can't see why it should be a problem.
I often wrongly assume all who post here obey the rules and therefore they are adults. In an adult relationship, it would be very strange for a girl to act this way; therefor my comments. My mistake; not 12, 16.