Is it normal for my gf to lose this much interest? and if... why?

me and my gf have been together for 5 months and 8 days now , the first 3 and a half months she was all over me the whole day. but the last month and a half she hangs out with my sister a lot , pays less to no attention to me and never sleeps over anymore? or is it just me? :o talked to it about her , she replied with ''i will change" which she obviously didn't do otherwise i wouldnt be posting this here :P
so... IIN?

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Comments ( 8 )
  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Maybe she's into girls more. Ask her.

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  • Mag!ck

    Ive been with my partner for over 2 years have 2 kids and we are still in our honeymoon i think it's too soon to be over

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  • a215

    wow your kinda exact on the dates, hm..... you sound very young. if you make yourself too available she might not be into that. hang out more with your friends.

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  • candiii

    I agree. ^

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  • Ldizzy1234

    I'm with dkitty. In the beginning it's all good, and "hot" because, well, it's the beginning, and you guys are starting out the relationship. Now, the heat has died down. You need to build the flame again. Do something to "wow" her as if it were the beginning. And if that doesn't work, then maybe, she just has more of a fun time hanging out with your sister, and you should find someone new.

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    • do you have any tips that might help? :) i'd really appriciate it :D

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      • Ldizzy1234

        Think about what made her really go crazy for you in the beginning. If you haven't done those things in a while, try to bring them back. But I must remind you, sometimes it's not good to do all the regular thing's that you used to do. Spice up the relationship by doing something different. Change it up a bit. Sometimes something new will make the relationship seem more exciting.
        You could always try taking her out somewhere that you guys have never been before. Something that could totally make her go, "Awwww, you did this for me!" Some girls think that being unpredictable is a turn on in a relationship.

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  • dkitty

    Your honeymoon stage is over, you're now in a real relationship.

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