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Me and a girl have been goin out for two weeks now and she is still so shy. We still haven't even kissed. She sometimes doesn't talk to me all day. We never talk outside of school. I still really like her but it seems like more of a friendship still then a relationship.
I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess you're pretty young. That stuff will change in time. You should go for the v card while it's legal though.
Most girls get really self-conscience when they're in a relationship because they really like the guy, so they don't want to make a move an have it rejected. Especially if she's shy. She'll open up eventually. And if she doesn't start opening up, then You should talk to her about it. If you don't feel comfortable talking out it, the you shouldn't be dating her. Also se might just want a slow relationship, especially if this is one of her firsts. Make y'alls first kiss extra special even if you have to wait a month for it. It's totally normal...
I agree with mumbum. you should try to make it fun but try as well to make her laugh. when she laughs you make it easier for her to relax when your around her. Likewise, give her time to adapt that you are more than just friend. try to make is easier for her to love you. here are some easygoing and funny date ideas:
1.Go around the city with sidewalk chalk and draw hearts with equations inside on random things
2.Dress up as pirates and go parrot shopping at local pet stores
3.Walk around a city and perform short silent plays in front of security cameras
4.Write a piece of fiction together. Outside at a cafe. Ask strangers when you get stuck.
5.Rent a movie you've never seen before. Set on mute and improvise dialogue
Do something fun!! The whole time she is worrying about how she is coming across and she is so scared.. Go and climb trees, or cycle around a park. Bake a cake ... Anything!!! If you are having fun she will feel less self conscious ... I am female.
Do something unexpected do the first move. Like lay one on her! A smoocharoo and then be like oops too soon? And make a sad face like as if you felt bad about it ha