Is it normal for my friend with benefit to act this way?

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We've been fwb since November 2011. He's 18 and I'm 17. Anyways he always calls me babe or texts me "hey you" and he said in november "I think im falling for you" and he told me that when he kissed me the first time its because "i like you". The other day he was texting me and told me that he wanted to see a picture of my face, so i asked him why and he said "because i miss seeing your beautiful face" he's never called me beautiful before and the topic of that went on for a little while and apparently he has always thought that i'm beautiful. Even when he spends the night with me he'll cuddle with me for hours and stay all day the next day. (sorry i'm trying to make this short) Also when we're cuddling he'll kiss my shoulders or forehead and hands. I think he likes me because all of this, but i'm not certain. Any advice would be much appreciated.

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    It sounds like he's already your boyfriend.

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  • poy
    11 years ago

    if you dont want him as a bf just tell him before its too late.

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  • FaithMBieber
    11 years ago

    Well. if you don't like that he is doing that you should tell him and maybe he would back off a little. If you do like that he is doing romantic little things and giving you complements maybe you should leave it as it is. It just depends if you feel the same way he does or if you don't feel the same way.

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  • caity202
    11 years ago

    I'm not sure, we haven't really talked about it.

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago

      Talk to him about it.

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  • caity202
    11 years ago

    I do want him as a boyfriend, i really like him but I don't know if he feels the same

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    • dom180
      11 years ago

      It seems like he feels the same way. Does he know that you want to be in a relationship with him?

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    • ShadowChild5916
      7 years ago

      I think it's heading that way sweetie, just ask "look, I think I like you, you said that you were falling for me and I just want to clear things up, are we ever going to get serious and have an actual relationship?" Make sure you sound OK and say like, no pressure or something x

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  • Thearmsofpeace
    11 years ago

    Friends with Benifits? No such thing. Trust me. Having sex with anyone really, confides you within a sort of emotional contract... Really this guy likes you, and you have led him on, if you want him to be your boyfriend put that card on the table.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Cut his heart out and crush it in your fist in front of him.

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