Is it normal for my fiance to get me to flirt with his friends?

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I have been engaged to a guy for seven months and we are due to get married next month but I am really uncomfortable lately about how he gets me to dress in revealing clothes when we are out with his friends.
I agree to it because I think he likes showing me off to his friends which is nice but he also encourages me to do things that I would consider flirting, like sitting on the other guys laps or dancing close, which has tended to invite wandering hands.

Is this normal or am I being over worried. I'm seriously thinking that he might not be serious about his feeling towards me if he wants to share our time like this? Its got to the point where i might even postpone the wedding?

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  • satanniggasandpopsicle
    6 years ago

    Fuck that guy.

    He wants you to be a slut. People are fucking sick.

    If anything I would be really protective of my girlfriend. Not completely controlling, but I wouldnt want her giving lap dances to other guys

    Thats sick. Thats what sluts do. And I dont want a fking slut.

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  • CandleCat
    6 years ago

    Id say talk to him about this sinve it makes tou uncomfortable. You are gettung married so why keep your feelings a seceret from him and ask the internet for help? This is your boyfriend and soon to be husband so you better get used to talking with him about issues you have or how tou feel about things. If tou two cant talk to eachother about your feelings etc, why get married? Thjs sounds too childish. Converse with him about why hes allowing this and making tou do these things. Maybe he has reasons you dont know about and wont ever be able to know about if you dont ask him.

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    Doesn't sound like it'll be a long and prosperous marriage. I'd think over everything and find out why he allows such. It's demeaning to make you do those things. Would you want him to sir in your girlfriend's laps and be touched and looked at that way? Just think about it vice versa. Would you want your daughters boyfriend trying to show her off to his friends for enjoyment? If you wouldn't want is as a parent then don't allow it as the girlfriend

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  • Beecherbabyok
    6 years ago

    Sounds like he loves the game. Know that's what you have ahead of you. It probably won't stop.

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  • ANSWERMEPLS
    6 years ago

    Hell no it's not normal. ASK him , tell him why he does this, if you're afraid to ask him.. THEN HOW WILL U LIVE UR LIFE WITH HIM?!?!

    Re-consider everything , if u think he REALLY loves u and he shows it.. maybe give him another chance.. if not.. i think u know what to do

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  • Sudofato
    6 years ago

    There are fetishes for everything, and sharing or watching the one you love with other people is just another one them. These fetishes usually lead to group 'play', orgies, and wife swaps.

    In my experience, many people do not realize (usually because they do not want to) what they are doing until someone calls them out on it.

    If he does know what he's doing, then that shows a lot about his character, and you should really find out more about this person before any vows.

    Regardless, you should talk to him and make sure he knows what you are and are not interested in. If he is really into that type of thing and you are not, then the chances of infidelity and divorce are pretty high. If you are going to spend the rest of your lives together, then good communication is very important. The number one cause of divorce is communication, and the second cause is sexual infidelity.

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  • Tinyprince
    6 years ago

    He might want you to cuck him.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Cancel or at least postpone the engagement, do it now!

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